No offense to you men here!! But I was wondering, how likely is it that a guy I have a huge crush on ... has no idea? I'm not a "flirty" person, and I definitely don't feel like I flirt around this guy, because I'm too busy trying to act nonchalant... lol. But I clearly seek this guy out, invite him to do things (albethem studying
), and call him occasionally. Last time, he enthusiastically said yes to hanging out, only to not call back and agree on a time/place to meet. He walked by me twice in one day without even saying hi (within 5 feet). I'm confused because sometimes he will make what appears to be a concerted effort to come talk to me, and then there's things like that.
Should I try to turn up the flirting? For example, I walked right past him today on my way to class and I was texting someone and didn't realize it was him. Then I looked up and he was right next to me and had kind of stopped. So we talked for a few minutes and he was telling me about an audition he has this weekend, and that he wouldn't make it because they only take two people and he's "not in the top 2". I tried to be all supportive and sweet ("awww, good luck!"), but I'm thinking he'd get the point better if I pulled a more "sure you will - you're the best dancer in the world!"/shoulder rub combo. just as an example.
raaawwrr..
(ETA: Sorry this is incoherent, feel free to answer whatever question you want.
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