My ex girlfriend wanted to have a conversation with me about what happened in our relationship to see where we went wrong. I hold no bad feelings towards her so we talked. I explained to her why the think the relationship never worked out. I've given her several chances and each time she made promises she never kept. During the conversation she says she wants try again. She and i have been together for 4 years if i remember correctly. Now that she feels the relationship is truly over she wants to put her best foot forward to make our relationship work. I was like WFT why now after all this time. I explained to her she is a creature of habit and she will never change. Because if she loved me so much she would have changed without me asking her too. My question is this. Why is it that people in a relationship want to change when they feel the relationship is really over. All of a sudden they want to do things right. Its to late at this point. All of this could have been avoided. Now she is crying her eyes out saying she is sorry and that she made a big mistake. I will not take her back for any reason. I just like to know why ppl do this. Why when people feel threaten of losing the person that they say the love all of a sudden. They want to do whats right.