to call or not to call

[lovesjoyajm]

I expected to run into this guy the other day, and planned to ask him if he was interested in a concert ticket for this sunday, for a concert with me and a few friends (I ended up having 3 extra tickets) and then seeing if he wanted to get together and study for our test on Monday. I didn't end up running into him so I tried calling him 3 or 4 times, but every time I got an immediate recording (after no rings) of "This person's inbox is full, please hang up". So I emailed him yesterday with the invitations. Thing is, I don't think he has a computer at his apt, so he might not even get it until Monday. Should I call him again now (assuming he'd pick up or I could leave a message)?

[DutchBoY]

well, seeing as you're really into him, by all means call.

[lovesjoyajm]

the relevance being that I like this guy, and I'm having a hard time figuring out if he's interested.

[Gigabitch]

Well, what happened?

[Cipher]

ya that would be a definate call him. what have you got to lose

[lovesjoyajm]

Well, what happened?

I called. We hung out till 4 am. We kissed when I was leaving...he wanted me to stay and I told him that I really liked him, but that I didn't know if we were looking for the same things and I didn't know how he felt... so he said he'd "think about it". Don't really know what to expect.

[Converse]

Yay! :]
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[clynn]

Yahoooooooo!!! Way to not give up!

[lovesjoyajm]

so do you think I screwed up by telling him that?

[Converse]

Nah.

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[Cipher]

so do you think I screwed up by telling him that?

not at all its always good practice to tell the other what you want and to listen to what they want. Be open dont hide things

[clynn]

Not at all. In fact, I think you're very smart.

[lovesjoyajm]

I don't really know where to go from here - it's not like I told him specifically "what i'm looking for". Should I just wait for him to call me?

[clynn]

Whatever, I think you're good either way.

Point is.......you've put it out there. He knows.