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  1. 05-07-06, 08:26 PM #1
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    what happens if you fall in love with your girlfriend's friend?...

    what happens if you fall in love with your girlfriend's friend?...
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    nothing good
  3. 05-07-06, 11:06 PM #3
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    Don't worry about it. Chances are you haven't.
    What kind of experience have you had with this friend that makes you think you actually 'love' her?
    "Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, when you're perfect in every way. I can't wait to look in the mirror, cause I get better loking each day. To know me is to love me, I must be a hell of a man. Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, but I'm doing the best that I can." Mac Davis
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    Are you sure it's not just a crush or that you're in "lust"? What makes you say that you love her?
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    Don't go there. Even if you got together, it wouldn't last very long.

    And like everyone else said, you're probably in 'lust' with her. I've had the hots for some of my bf's friends.......good looking, funny guys......hard not to find them attractive. But I didn't take it seriously, cuz I loved my bf.
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    thanks for the comments...you're probably right it is just a crush...
  7. 06-07-06, 03:44 PM #7
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    get ready for a whole lot of drama to come into everyone's lives.

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    Break up with your girlfriend and go out with her friend.

    Love conquers all right?
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    They stay mates and you end up alone.
    You never know............................. until you ask!
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    nah dont do anything rash just casue you feel some emotion lust or whatever. whats more important to you?

    and if you still want to move forward be honest
    It takes a minute to have a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, a day to love someone - but it takes a lifetime to forget someone"

    People change and forget to tell each other.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Frasbee
    Break up with your girlfriend and go out with her friend.

    That's the worst f***ing advice I've ever heard. First of all, your (ex)girlfriend would never speak to you again, and her friend would side with your girfriend and treat you like shat. You'd end up with nothing and no one. Except for a couple of enemies......
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    Quote Originally Posted by CherriBlossomGi
    That's the worst f***ing advice I've ever heard. First of all, your (ex)girlfriend would never speak to you again, and her friend would side with your girfriend and treat you like shat. You'd end up with nothing and no one. Except for a couple of enemies......
    Just tellin' him what he wants to hear.

    And don't bash on my advice, I don't appreciate it.
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    Do i sense something blossoming here?
    It takes a minute to have a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, a day to love someone - but it takes a lifetime to forget someone"

    People change and forget to tell each other.

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