Any way to help?

[heartfelt]

This story is quite long, so please bear with me. but i really am in need of help.

i have a girlfriend, i am male and straight.
but she's not straight. yes it may sound weird, but here's how the story goes.

she had this girlfriend for 4 years,
but she chose to end it, to be with me, because well she loved me deeply.
but after sometime, she realised that she feels turned off when we make out, it's not even sex. she tried, she tried to touch me (as in petting, etc), but she told me that it just feels uncomfortable.

she also later told me that "i don't like to touch guys", but she still hasn't given up, i'm trying to look for a solution, i've been to numerous sites, i need help. i really do.

How can i help her?

[Ellynn]

When it comes to that, there really is nothing you can do. I mean, if she ends up preferring females over males, thats really not your fault. All you should be is yourself...and let her be herself and respect that.

[Khazard]

Ellynn is right, we cant control out feelings or our emotions, what turns us on, turns us on, there isnt no way around it. Sorry dude.

[heartfelt]

so the bottomline is, if you're a homosexual you CANNOT change?

[Junket]

Anybody can change.

But something like that is not likely to change easily, if at all.

And that story wasn't long at all, I could show you some long ones.

Thanks for keepin' it short.

[heartfelt]

so is there any form of advice as in what can i do?

anything for a start?

[Ellynn]

so the bottomline is, if you're a homosexual you CANNOT change?

You can change. But, it might be done to conform with society or to fit in better. It can even be done to please others. But when it comes down to it all, why live a lie to please others? Eventually its bound to surface again and in the end that person will be unhappy living the lie. So you should just let her live her life how she wants. She cannot change herself for you or anyone else. Its a decision she has to make on her own with how she wants to live her life.

[Ellynn]

so is there any form of advice as in what can i do?

anything for a start?

You can be open with her and talk about how you feel. You can also try to understand how shes feeling. Give her space to figure out what she wants. But, you must realize you have to respect that decision she makes when the time comes.

No matter if you change your kissing techniques or if you brush up on sex tips, chances are shes still gonna long for a female. Sorry but you cannot compete with that. You don't have a vagina.

[Junket]

Sorry but you cannot compete with that. You don't have a vagina.

But you know...with enough money...or the right connections...you could have a vagina!

[Khazard]

LMAO Frasbee

[King Zarathu]

Ha...

Yeah, it would really suck if your girlfriend became lesbian while you were going out with her--just don't forget it isn't your fault.

EDIT:
I thought I was done in this thread... I was sadly mistaken. How old are the two of you?!