Send her portrait back?

[Freeway3137]

Well i have jus gotten out of a 4 year relationship, and I told her that I really am having a hard time dealing with it andI have asked her if she was even hurt one bit and she told me she was completely fine with it.

when we had been together she went to Las Vegas and paid $20 to get a portrait of herself drawn and she gave it to me as a present, now I just dont want to toss it or keep it, should I just mail it back to her since she lives a little ways away? Or just stash it away for memories but risking that someday ill find it and feel hurt again?

How would you react if u got ur gift back

[bluesummer]

I would just give it back to her. It's something she might like to have. I gave my ex's grad photos and baby pics back to him when we broke up after five years. Like you, I didn't want to throw them away, and I didn't want to keep them either.

[Freeway3137]

Thank you, I'll probably send it back to her tommorrow, should I tell her I am sending it back or just have it a total surprise?

[bluesummer]

Just send it back, no reason to say anything. Don't want to get into a debate about it with her.

[polo]

yea, give it back man ...let by gones be by gones