When opportunity knocks, you...? HELP!!!

[polo]

I'm sorry, this may be long but I pray to God you can help me . Well ..here's the background in [URL="http://www.loveforum.net/showthread.php?t=13606"]thebreak up [/URL]forum.

But guess what ...I got a pickle and need your help!!! Well, I went to see her last weekend. She wanted to put closure on it for me becuase she saw that I was hurt. After being w/ eachother for a bit when I got there she really saw that I was changing and was dedicating myself to changing at heart. We sat down and she started crying becuase she saw all my efforts and saw that I was hurt. I held her ..and one thing lead to another and we kissed. We held hands, cuddled, and kissed passionately all weekend. Here's the twist.

Turns out she's already dating a guy that I didn't know about after we broke up for good last month. During the bad times of our relationship, I always said if there was a guy for her ...that I hoped it would be him becuase I knew he would treat her like a princess. Well she's dating him now. He is an angel. Great heart. They were on the phone and he said he would step back from their relationship so she could figure out whats between us. He even offered his place to me to stay that weekend b/c I didnt have any. He's got a golden heart. I admire that soo much. However, she's not attracted to him and said theres not always a spark when they kiss. But he will treat her like a precious baby. I know he would too.

She said she's going to stay with him becuase when she compares us, he will make her happiest at this point. She still kissed me, held me, reached out for my hand and such all weekend becuase she said it felt so natural. I guess she did that to try to figure stuff out? Instead of getting closure, I'm sure she's more confused now. She still really likes the one guy, but she knows its not over between me and her becuase of the great weekend.

What do you think I should do? I told her I will prove my love and wait for her to figure things out. I will be faithfull until she calls with her resolution. I dont know if what they have is real. I think it may just be a rebound? Im not sure though. I wont contact her or anything. What should I do when she calls? Should I tell her how I miss her or just hold back while she's in the relatinoship. Do you think she just likes him now becuase he has a golden heart? I dont want to break them up becuase 1) she's happy 2) hes a great child of God. I will wait, yea?

[Junket]

Let 'er go and let yourself go. Don't talk, or call, or e-mail her, and move on. She's already made her choice. Don't make yourself this pathetic little boy on back up. That's no way to have a proper relationship.