Crazy?

[InLove16]

Hey
Well I have no idea how to start really
I am 16 in 2 weeks and I do have a boyfriend well i know him since im 13.
But the thing is i never met him. He started to feel more after about 1 year talking almost everyday i wasnt sure but iam really now i mean i just want to be together with him and all he does call it a relationship well longdistance because i live in germany and he lives in chicago :'( idk
is that crazy or what
i would like to know what others think about it

[InLove16]

Well he will be here next summer for over 1 month thats what im looking forwward!

[Gigabitch]

Sweetie, I think it's cute that you think you have a boyfriend. I think it will give you time to grow without getting involved with guys who are close enough to take advantage of your extreme innocence.

[TAVS]

Don't waste your youth on a relationship like this.

[Ellynn]

A boyfriend over the net huh? I did that when I was like 15. Didn't last long mainly because there was no contact and he lived on the east coast. But, at your age, its probably the safest thing.


IF you guys do meet when he comes to visit, bring someone with you. You never really know who is on the other end of the internet.

And I hate to tell you, but to make an actual relationship work, you need to be able to spend time together, alot of it, over a long period of time.

I think any adult will tell you that Long distance things rarely work.

[InLove16]

Ok but I know you guys think im naiv and all that but I would say its a lot different. I know him for a long time now and hes so different than other guys in my age here it last now over 2 years and we talk almost everday. but its ok :'(

[Gigabitch]

You should be naive at 15-almost-16. Count your blessings.

[InLove16]

his parents said if he wants to visit me they will make holidays here next summer
and i wouldnt go alone there for sure. i just idk.
and thanks gigabitch by the way
Ellynn thanks your at least very nice

[InLove16]

who said i should be gigabitch?
i dont think so

[Gigabitch]

I say so. I think innocence should be cherished and held on to as long as possible. You can't get it back.

People try to grow up too fast.

[Ellynn]

who said i should be gigabitch?
i dont think so

She meant it as a compliment. There are so many young people these days who aren't and get themselves into far worse situations.

[InLove16]

ok
i think i didnt understand it because my english isnt the best
sorry