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    What the f*ck is wrong with me

    Ok guys and galz I need help from you all . I've a gf and she loves me a lotttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt . She loves me more than anything . I also love her a lotttttttt

    But the problem is whenever she talks to any other guy I feel like f*cking jealous . I dunno why . Then I get angry on myself bcoz of my behaviour


    Plzzzzz tell me what to do
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    It's okay, it's a normal thing. What I learned from the others around here, specifically, is that everyone gets jealous, it's just a matter of how well you handle it. Does she know you get extremely jealous?

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    The fact that you're concerned about your behavior means you're already a step closer than most with your problem to fixing the issue before it becomes a major one.

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    You're insecure. it's notttt about her or how much you love/ trust her.

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    yea I hate that shit... When I was with my ex, she'd ALWAYS bitch at me for gettin jealous, but then she would get jealous on me? I did not get that, and I told her that and she was just to stuck up about it.

    Call me the thread jacker, but don't let it get to serious otherwise you'll end up broken up. It's normal to have those feelings though.

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    I guess it is normal, plenty of people get that way. But that's more to do with you than it is to do with her. She has her own life and she is free to talk to whoever she wants to, which I am sure you're aware of.
    Why do you get jealous? Figure that one out.
    Because if you trust her then it's clearly got nothing to do with her being untrusting or whatever, this is all on you. Are you afraid that she will find someone better, or what? Figure out what the deal is and then go from there.
    To love is to suffer. To avoid suffering, one must not love; but then one suffers from not loving. Therefore, to love is to suffer, not to love is to suffer, to suffer is to suffer. To be happy is to love; to be happy then is to suffer, but suffering makes one unhappy; therefore to be unhappy one must love or love to suffer or suffer from too much happiness. I hope you're getting this down.

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    being jealous is normal. Maybe you are scared to loose her that's why you are soooo jealous. Just control it, coz some girls don't like it when guys are over reacting when it comes to jealousy, they might think you don't thrust them,girls.

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    I think jealousy stems from a feeling that one doesn't quite deserve the relationship they are in, and they fear losing it. I would work on making yourself feel more "worthy" by doing things you are proud of and make you feel more entitled. For example, academic achievement boosts self-esteem, donating some time to a worthy charity - you know, doing something positive with your life.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    Quote Originally Posted by vashti View Post
    I think jealousy stems from a feeling that one doesn't quite deserve the relationship they are in, and they fear losing it.
    Bingo. Date someone you consider inferior to yourself and I bet you won't be jealous!

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    Bingo. Date someone you consider inferior to yourself and I bet you won't be jealous!
    No. I spent my time dating women I considered FAAAR beneath me, yet I was still jealous.

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    ill tell you wtf is wrong with you
    YOU ARE SICK......
    Shoot your self......
    the dissease you have is worse than cancer , aids , h5n1
    i am so sorry for you

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    lolo

    Quote Originally Posted by Renu View Post
    ill tell you wtf is wrong with you
    YOU ARE SICK......
    Shoot your self......
    the dissease you have is worse than cancer , aids , h5n1
    i am so sorry for you
    alow me....the dissease is worse than :

    -brain tumor
    -heart dissease
    -parkinson
    -obesity
    -drug addiction
    -sexual disorders
    -colon cancer
    -prostate cancer
    -alcohol abuse
    -anorexia
    -erectile disfunction....


    pls some one stops me.....

    pls....))))
    The way i have sex is.... politically incorrect!

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    Quote Originally Posted by daiza View Post
    alow me....the dissease is worse than :

    -brain tumor
    -heart dissease
    -parkinson
    -obesity
    -drug addiction
    -sexual disorders
    -colon cancer
    -prostate cancer
    -alcohol abuse
    -anorexia
    -erectile disfunction....


    pls some one stops me.....

    pls....))))


    lollllllllllll . I don't want to die


    Thnx for ur replies . Now I've learnt to control myself

    Again a big thnx to all

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    hey np !
    .................

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