what to do

[xwfuro]

well last night some shit went down. One of my so called best friends (a girl) has this new boyfriend who cheated on her in the very start of their relationship, and just kissing another girl. I had found out from a buddy of mine and told my friend just looking out for her but telling her it was at the start of their relationship dont worry about it. Well she goes and tells the guy about it and i run into them both at the store last night. He gets in my face and i can just tell wants to fight me over it? He then starts telling me how my SHE was telling him im talking shit etc and wanted to fight, when all i said was what i had heard. SO basically she stands there by his side the whole time while hes tlaking down to me etc. ive known htis girl since 7th grade i thought she was one of my best friends. She didnt even stand up for me. i had to get that off my chest

[vashti]

That sucks. A lot of girls take loyalty to their boyfriends to an extreme level - I had a boyfriend stop a man from beating his girlfriend in a parking lot, and the crazy bitch turned on my boyfriend. Also, it is well-known that domestic violence cases are one of the most dangerous calls a peace officer can take.

Your friend considers her relationship with this guy to be more important than her relationship with you, although she may feel bad about this. Because of this, I wouldn't get involved in anymore of her relationship problems. She is obviously willing to tolerate crap out of him, so putting yourself in the spotlight like that is non-productive.

Sorry, my friend.

[Kiechi]

Kick his ass, then kick hers.

Hell, while you're at it, take their wallets and take a huge dump on her chest. Then run.

[jurupa]

Your friend considers her relationship with this guy to be more important than her relationship with you, although she may feel bad about this. Because of this, I wouldn't get involved in anymore of her relationship problems. She is obviously willing to tolerate crap out of him, so putting yourself in the spotlight like that is non-productive.

I agree, but you also forgot about the drama this girl seems to likes to create. And trying to stand up for her when she doesn't even lift a finger just supports what you already said about the friendship the oringal poster has with this girl.

xwfuro its up to you if you still want to be friends with this girl. But if you do still want to be friends with her I would adivse to make things less personal with her.