guy pins girl down

[carbon]

what does it mean when you're making out/etc with a guy, both parties naked, and he pins you down - i.e., grabs both your wrists with his hands and pins them onto the bed so you can't move your arms - and then preceeds to do things? this happened to me for the first time the other day and i'm curious. any thoughts?

[Junket]

Well, if you want to be pinned down and screwed, then it just means he like to be dominant.

If you didn't want to be pinned down and screwed, then it means you were raped.

[derm]

what does it mean when you're making out/etc with a guy, both parties naked, and he pins you down - i.e., grabs both your wrists with his hands and pins them onto the bed so you can't move your arms - and then preceeds to do things? this happened to me for the first time the other day and i'm curious. any thoughts?

Scareeeeeeeeey!

[Tiay]

.. and proceeds to "do things"?.. .. what things?!
and if he did it against your will, what it means is that he's an evil bastard and you should've kneed him in the crotch.
Personally, I'm kinky and like being pinned down a little. But if it not what you like then he should NOT do it.

[vashti]

^What they all said, plus don't allow yourself to be naked with someone you aren't sure is trustworthy.

[King Zarathu]

^What they all said, plus don't allow yourself to be naked with someone you aren't sure is trustworthy.

And on the side of a peanut jar: **WARNING** CONTAINS NUTS!

[derm]

Personally, I'm kinky and like being pinned down a little.

Quit talking about it here Tiay.............You can show me later!

[Tiay]

You can show me later!

I'm conflicted on which response to use here so i'll just list them all, the real ones first and the jokey ones last.

• none of your beeswax

• get lost, I'd only do that with my BF who I trust completely.

• I'd like to tie up guys too, so I think i'll try that on you, for practice...

• Galway, the Raddisson hotel, room 13, 5 pm tomorrow, bring lube.

[carbon]

so the guy is my ex...long story. i didn't feel violated or anything like that, but actually liked the feeling a lot. however, he had never done that with me while we were together, so i wasn't sure what it meant. we didn't have sex, i.e. no penetration, but did a lot of other things, including oral.

[Tiay]

alright then, he probably just likes being in control. As long as you can stop him at any point and you're not uncomfortable, it's ok.

[carbon]

but why had he never done it when we were together? sex sucked when we were together, when it mattered?!

[derm]

I'm conflicted on which response to use here so i'll just list them all, the real ones first and the jokey ones last.

• none of your beeswax

• get lost, I'd only do that with my BF who I trust completely.

• I'd like to tie up guys too, so I think i'll try that on you, for practice...

• Galway, the Raddisson hotel, room 13, 5 pm tomorrow, bring lube.

Sorry Tiay!

I'm not usually this obnoxiously perverted. I just couldn't resist it!

Forgot you were my Irish/German friend.

As it so happens I'll be passing the Radisson tomorrow but I'm gonna have to decline this time. Wouldn't be fair on your boyfriend and I'm a bit annoyed you don't feel the same.

Also have the feeling room 13 would be unlucky, or is already set up for porno movie recording. If one more DVD gets out, my career is ruined.

Some other time okay?

I'm holding you to it

[Tiay]

I think i'm just not experienced enough to answer that. It could be a ton of things to do with how your relationship was, what's changed now, etc..
However, isn't having ex sex a worry in itself? what's going on there?

[Tiay]

I'm not usually this obnoxiously perverted.

Oh really?

[derm]

Oh really?

Yes reallly!
Sorry again!!