Long story short. My relationship of 5 years ended. Still friends, but relationship is over. I have since met a new girl, but I'm not sure if I should go through with it.
Anyway, she's a very honest girl, very open with me, really cool to hang out with, and really enjoys seeing me... something I didnt' see in the last 6 months of my last relationship. But here's the thing. I've seen her the last 3 evenings. Okay cool, had a good time. Today she had to work, and wanted me to come in and visit her in the store (she works at Victoria Secret). I texted her back and was like I want a day to myself so I'm gonna stay home. etc.
The other day we went to a game, and afterwards she wanted me to come over and watch a movie. I told her up front I wasn't feeling good and just wanted some time to myself. The look she gave me made me feel so good. She hugged me and said hey I don't want to push you into anything, so you take whatever time you want. That made me feel good.
So I guess in reality, she seems like the clingy type who knows when to give me space. Know what I mean? I just want some more opinions here.
SECOND THING:
She gets worked up about little things... well maybe they're just little to me. I've had quite a few jobs and in each one had my fair share of asshole managers and supervisors. Well, at Vic Secret she's got snobby wanna-be models which are managers, and she doesn't particularly like them. Everytime I talk to her on the phone, she's worked up about how she doesn't like her managers. Normally she'll vent for a little bit, 20 minutes or so, and we'll get on with another topic of conversation. So... what should I do about this? Should I talk to her and try to show her my way of dealing with problems like this? Because I always think positive, and I honestly believe that if I keep a positive attitude that I am above everything else... so if someone comes to me, like a manager, and bitches at me, sure I may be upset for a minute, but after that I'm fine. I let it go. I ignore it. I move on. I don't complain about it. And I maintain a positive attitude.
So... what should I do, just work with her and help her understand my way of dealing with issues like that?
I mean I don't want to change who she is, but I do want to help her understand my way of dealing with these issues, and I want her to grow from it and understand it. Because, quite frankly, I don't want our topic of conversation EVERY SINGLE DAY to be about how she hates her managers at work.