Doggeh

[Arx Fatalis]

i have a question, is it common for a girl to like it from behind?

I mean i and my girlfriend have been dating for nearely two years and about 2 months ago i tried it with her doggie style ever since that day very time we have sex she wants it from behind (she used to love riding) but now this is all she ever wants and i never get the positions i want so is it normal for a girl to like it that much from behind or is there something wrong with me?

[vashti]

What does it matter if it is statistically "normal"? Your girl likes it, and you don't. I think you need to BOTH be willing to compromise, which means NEITHER of you will get 100% what you want. That is what a good relationship is all about - neither of you getting exactly what you want. (Okay, that part is a joke.) Good relationships are about compromise.

That being said, I think many women prefer face-to-face as it is more intimate and allows you to connect better to your partner. (This is not to say that we don't enjoy it from behind.) I wonder, though, if this is a symptom of another problem. Are you having any problems with intimacy in other areas of your relationship?

[King Zarathu]

There is something wrong with you.

[Arx Fatalis]

no she's usually up for different positions after that...she never tells me flat out wants it she just prefers it to most other things thats not all we do when we have sex but im getting a little tiny bit tired of doing it every single time im guessing she likes it so much because i can go about 20X harder that way she tells me she likes it because it feels the best

but the thing is we dont have sex a whole lot so when she does get it she's craving that specific position, at first i didnt mind but now its just every time we have sex we have a great relationship its just that this is my only complaint and i dont know what to do without just flat out saying No.

[vashti]

If she is willing to change positions after doing it this way, I don't know why you wouldn't just do it. She doesn't seem to be denying you YOUR pleasure. Why would you deny hers?

[King Zarathu]

no she's usually up for different positions after that...she never tells me flat out wants it she just prefers it to most other things thats not all we do when we have sex but im getting a little tiny bit tired of doing it every single time im guessing she likes it so much because i can go about 20X harder that way she tells me she likes it because it feels the best

but the thing is we dont have sex a whole lot so when she does get it she's craving that specific position, at first i didnt mind but now its just every time we have sex we have a great relationship its just that this is my only complaint and i dont know what to do without just flat out saying No.

Holy ****ing shit! That was all one sentence!

[Arx Fatalis]

i dont want to deny her pleasure but the position is getting OLD

[Mathias]

i dont want to deny her pleasure but the position is getting OLD

So next time, when you thrust all the way out, "accidentally" miss...if you catch my drift.

[vashti]

i dont want to deny her pleasure but the position is getting OLD

I don't understand. Didn't you say that you do this position and then change to another one?

Honestly, it is a LOT more difficult for women to orgasm than it is for men. If this is the position that gets her there, and she is willing to change positions for your pleasure afterwards, I think you should stop being so selfish.

I also don't suggest you talk to her about it unless you feel somehow degraded. It could only hurt your sex life.

[King Zarathu]

lol, you're a jackass.

And I love every part of it.