Would it seem as if. . . .

[Love[Sick]]

Would it seem as if I was trying to just be around this guy if I join karate? A few weeks ago he was talking about karate and I made a somment of how I had always wanted to try karate. He suggested that I go to the place he goes. Ever since then he will ask me if I had thought about it yet, but now I am going to join. I want to be in his class, but I don't want to seem as if I am trying to just be around him.

[Junket]

but I don't want to seem as if I am trying to just be around him.

Well...do you wanna be around him?

[Love[Sick]]

Yes, I do. We have a strong friendship, but I don't want it to seem as if I am trying to go any further than friendship.

[Junket]

Ooooh.

Hmm...try setting it up so you have some classes with him, and some without.

[Love[Sick]]

Good idea, thanks.

[Kiechi]

I did karate, what a uselss piece of shit. It's a cockful of piss. Then I started boxing... now thats a whole different story.

(sorry for the language, been watching too much angrynintendonerd)

[Rob26]

Yes, I do. We have a strong friendship, but I don't want it to seem as if I am trying to go any further than friendship.

Why do you want to disguise your feelings? What if he's too thick to pick up on the fact that you're interested in him?

Believe me, when I'm interested in someone I often, for reasons I don't understand, pretend I'm not -- and it's NEVER done ME any good. I'm trying to change and now I read you want to do what hasn't worked for me ...

[vashti]

Are you interested in him romantically, or are you worried that he might be interested in you?

[Love[Sick]]

Are you interested in him romantically, or are you worried that he might be interested in you?

Well, it's a bit of both. We sorta mess around with each other but keep it secret. We'll go out to places together, and we'll flirt around. I do have strong feelings for him, and I will admit that I get jealous and protective of him when he is around girls.

[vashti]

I don't understand "secret" relationships unless you are married.

[Ellynn]

HE was the one who suggested you join where he goes. So obviously he wants you to. Plus he kept bringing it up.

Yeah, why does it have to be secret? I think the guy digs you and wants to get closer. Why not take some classes with him and see what happens?

[Love[Sick]]

No, not married. When we are alone we flirt around, but we never tell anyone of our doings. We keep it a secret between us.

[Ellynn]

No, not married. When we are alone we flirt around, but we never tell anyone of our doings. We keep it a secret between us.

But why? Are you just afraid to admit your feelings to him?

[Love[Sick]]

Well, I'm afriad of getting into a relationship with him because he is a senior and he will probably be leaving for college. He used to be like my brother, and I told him nearly everything. He knows so much about me, and I know so much about him. Being more than friends would seem awkward.

[vashti]

You are already "more than friends" if you are messing around with him.