How do you give your girlfriend/significant other an orgasm?

[Crispy12]

I know this is a dumb question, but I am inexperienced and I was curious. How do you give women an orgasm?

[misombra]

i don't know! why don't you ask her?

[jurupa]

I know this is a dumb question, but I am inexperienced and I was curious. How do you give women an orgasm?

Uh you have sex that is how.

[vashti]

Lots of us do better with oral sex. In fact, I bet that the reason women "didn't like sex" up until the 60s was that oral sex was unheard of.

[vashti]

Yeah - they are really easy to fake, and all I can tell you is that if she IS faking, she doesn't deserve an orgasm.

[vashti]

Well, once you develop trust, I am sure you will know whether or not she can be believed.

As for me, I don't understand why some women fake it. If a man isn't doing it right, how will he ever know if you are faking orgasms? Some women are dumb.

In the meantime, I would just assume you are doing fine since she still wants to see you.

[vashti]

It certainly *sounds* like you were doing it right.

[misombra]

really? i think it sounds like she hated it. pulling your head, squeezing it between her legs while making "building-up noises." i don't know, sounds like she was really bored.

[CAM]

Lots of us do better with oral sex. In fact, I bet that the reason women "didn't like sex" up until the 60s was that oral sex was unheard of.

LOL. Yeah, like human beings didn't figure that out until the 1960's! Oral sex has been around forever.

[Gigabitch]

It's why we don't cut men's tongues out when they say stupid things.

[Junket]

Lots of us do better with oral sex. In fact, I bet that the reason women "didn't like sex" up until the 60s was that oral sex was unheard of.

C'mon Vash, this is easily the most foolish thing you've ever said.

[vashti]

Haven't you guys seen the Vagina Monologues? According to the elderly women interviewed, "good girls" didn't receive oral sex back in the day, so yeah, it was around, but not nearly as widespread as it is now. In fact, I would say that oral sex (with women as recipients) has risen in popularity even since *I* was a teenager.

[anachronistic]

If the woman has slept with another man, I would feel very uncomfortable giving her oral. It makes me cringe.

[Gigabitch]

I think that's an age and experience thing, Lilwing. It's an interesting phenomena, though- some guys are really territorial over someone else's genitalia, aren't they?

[vashti]

This is at least the third thread that lilwing has mentioned his aversion on today. Why is he obsessing over it?