Mind to pay attention to what i'm gonna say?

**ColdSilence** · 11-02-04, 03:59 AM

Hello,
Firstly, i should intoduce myself just a little bit - i'm new in here i've just done the member process a few minutes ago.
And thank you all of you who come by here to read this forum.

Well, it's close to Valentine's Day but i don't mean to post this topic to welcome this coming Valentine's Day.
Okay, let's get into the point,
now i'm studying in university. i'm considering myself as bi-sexual. well, last two years i met a guy who was in the same class as mine so firstly i was just interested in him but i didn't think any more futher. also at that time i was seeing some other girls as well so that i didn't think about it much.
But after i broke up with my girlfriend, i usually spent my life alone by myself and i thought that this time is suitable for me to think about what i've done and i should concentrate to my study.

Do you believe in our eyes?
i always put a belief in my basic instinct that is when i go to take a walk i usually look through others' eyes on the street. The eyes can tell me many things.
Also i would know that someone is interested in me by looking through the eyes.
As i mentioned earlier that i met a guy in the class, right?
Well, i'm not sure about this guy because i mostly avoid to look at his eyes. The reason why i do like that is i do know that i like him but i think again "may be" he does not think of me in the same way so that i usually make up me mind not to look at him.
But one day, i met him face to face in the elevator at school, i noticed that we both stuck to one's throat ,and then there was only a silence happened till i got out. One thing that i could remember while i was in the elevator is we both look at each other eyes and that might tell me that he may be interested in me as well.
Well, i'm not gonna make it too long for you.
i've got the feeling that now i'm miss him and it made me feel bad and also i could not get much sleep at night.
i made a plan that i should go to see him and let him know what i feel. But you know it's quite hard for me 'cause this is my first time that i'm gonna confess to a guy that i like.
In other hands, i think i should keep it not to let him know 'cause i'm afraid to know what the thing he will say.
And being in this feeling is not too good for me, it's destroy my body - i mean that i cannot sleep and it makes me get sick easily, also my study result will go to hell for sure!

So if you have any good suggestion, please let me know.
And thank you again to all of you who reach my last line. i'm so sorry to waste your valuable time.

Have a Great day!
ColdSilence

**squirrley** · 11-02-04, 06:20 PM

You're not wasting anyones time...but helpful hint...
you should've posted in the dating thread...more people go there and would've been able to help.

Honestly I dont know what to say. I mean it seems you like this guy, and you're stressing out because you havent told him. Or afraid of rejection. Gotta take risks. Wouldnt you rather know than not? And deal with it, either it works or doesnt. You accept it go with it and or move on. Keep your priorities straight though..
goodluck

**ColdSilence** · 11-02-04, 09:30 PM

thanks a lot, squirrley.
You help me alot.
well, i'm gonna do like what you said, i mean i will post the same message again in the dating forum.
Thank you!
Have a Great day!
ColdSilence

**Zekk_T_Strife** · 12-02-04, 03:58 AM

This probly looks weird but I merged the two threads so it was all in Dating Talk instead of Suggestion and Others so her original post was put in twice.

**squirrley** · 12-02-04, 06:25 AM

you go mod!!! But she's a he.

**Zekk_T_Strife** · 12-02-04, 10:49 AM

Damn it, I hate it when I do that.

**squirrley** · 12-02-04, 07:27 PM

its ok buddy...we still wuv ya!

**ColdSilence** · 12-02-04, 09:57 PM

Umm! Thank you for makin' a change in my forum, Zekk_T_Strife.
And also thank to squirrley.

Well, just wanna continue telling some more about my story,
umm! maybe the weather in my town is quite cold so that it makes me think of him, and i usually spent time to imagine that how i miss him also i often think about the consequence after telling him. 'squirrley', you are right that i'm afraid of rejection but now i'm trying to find the right time to tell him - now we both, he and i, have to concentrate in the study.
And i'm not brave enough to let him know. i just pray for God that just let me see him face to face one more time and then i can make a decision acrroding to the thing i planned for.

Thank you!

**squirrley** · 13-02-04, 08:05 AM

Ok? Concentrate on studying. That's a no brainer. But STAND UP!
A lot of people are afraid of rejection, BUT how will you know if you dont try it! Lets see, its like tasting one of Janes or Zekks recipes for a first time, you have no idea, but when you take the first bite...get what I'm saying? YOU NEED TO TAKE ACTION!
IF he's given you an indication, then go for it. Experiences are what shape us. Let me tell ya theres nothing more attractive when someone shows their CONFIDENCE!!!!!!!

You can study classes and then you can study eachother!
GO FOR IT

**Innova** · 13-02-04, 08:11 AM

Somebody take action on me!

**jane** · 13-02-04, 08:19 AM

um .. hello .... I need some action!

**Innova** · 13-02-04, 08:19 AM

*whistles*

**jane** · 13-02-04, 08:20 AM

ROFL...

**squirrley** · 13-02-04, 08:34 AM

see this is where it gets messed up, I miss all of this shit...

i'm tired of playing with myself...

**Innova** · 13-02-04, 08:38 AM

True...true...

But hey, i like being tarded

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