Me and my partner have been together 5 years. Over that time we have slowly been spending less time with each other and seem little more than good friends. In the beginning it was fun and exciting, we were madly in love. I still love her very much but have never been able to express myself fully, and often don't make the effort to spend time with her. I guess we have just coasted this whole time and not really given the relationship the attention it deserves. She says that she has not been happy for ages and that she feels angry towards me for all the time we wasted. She cares for me deeply but Im not sure if she still loves me. If I can determine that we loved each other very muchat SOME point, can this relationship be rescued? Isn't it worth trying to recapture that spark? Can the time wasted be overcome? She seems to be ready to give up because too much damage has been done, but I want to make changes to my life to make myself a better boyfriend, as I am pretty sure that she is feeling withdrawn due to feelings of abandonment. What can I say to show her that it can be like it was?