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help pls.
caution: long story.
me and my gf have been together for a little over a month now. we knew each other for almost 2 years now, but we only started liking each other for about 2 months. at first my gf's best friend told me that my gf was starting to like me and i liked her for a while too. it took me about a month to ask her out and im not really sure why. maybe i was scared? but then again i knew that she was going o say yes and we both knew that we liked each other and talked a lot. well i finally got my courage to ask her out and it was going so great. we both are in like the same group of people so our friends are pretty much the same. they used to tease us and say that we liked each other before we even knew we did. some of our friends even bet money that we did and bet that we would be going out. for about 3 weeks it was great. im not sure about her but i love her so much and she means everything to me. but the thing is that shes my first gf and i really dont know how to be a good bf. We havnt even been out on a date yet but we chill together kind of a lot. before i asked her out my friends would tell bug me to ask her out saying she likes you like crazy. i've never had someone that i liked like me back and this felt really good. i love being wih her and i love just holding her. i love how she gives me sweet kisses for no reason. but we've been having problems lately. she says that i dont talk to her enough anymore. she says all she want is for me to talk to her more. so i did and i talk to her about anything. but now its like she wants more. and so do i. i want to take her out and have fun and just be with her. but honestly im not sure what to do on dates..like i dont know where i should take her. im 15 by the way so its not like i can drive her and take her to places. i really want to spend time with her but i dont know what to do..she confuses me so much too. she always say i love you and stuff but she tells her other friends things that i wish she would tell me. sometimes i feel like im the last one to know about how she feels and i wish she would tell me. since she is my first gf im not sure what to do in a relationship. help?
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umm! it seems like you both are insecured, i mean even you have known each other for almost 2 years but you both really know your real self - it's just like to you started hanging out last 3 months, it might not enough, just like she wants you to talk to her more.
The reason why you have not much thing to say, in my opinion, i think you both have not much experience in this kind of relationship.
So that she puts a trust to her friends more than you 'cause she can tell them anything, especially to talk about you how to get along with you.
And you do the same thing as hers, right ? you ask your friends for an advice about girlstuff.
Well, i think you both are quite young so just try to open more in talking about anything, if have no idea to talk, maybe you can bring up any interesting topics as travelling or what thing you're going to do together... something like that.
Goodluck!
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u still young, and i think that the experience just solve yr prob
so be patient and try to get along with her
and God bless u
Tornado
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