mixed emotions she says...

[hi2u]

ok this girl has mixed emotions for me..she told her friend this

what could this mean?
we are pretty good friends and hang out alot...
theres like 3 guys right now that like her alot including me
and she likes me alot but how can you have mixed emotions for someone you like?

maybe she likes me mroe as a friend or something?

is this bad or good for me, becasue if she likes me as a friend and we went to another stage(bf and gf) then wouldnt we click better?

[Gigabitch]

She's got three guys now? Dude, you need to ask her out before she gets any more admirers. She's starting to sound like Scarlett O'Hara.

[anachronistic]

stop worrying talking and shit about the other guys. pretend like you don't even know about them. ask her out on a date. then let us know how it goes.

[Gigabitch]

^^^ That's good advice.

[hi2u]

ok ill do that...

and how will i know if were actually "going out", do i have to ask her or can we like involve into it lol..

im sorry but im totally knew to relationships i havnt been this interested in a girl.

[Gigabitch]

You need to ask her out to dinner or something official like that, so she doesn't think you're just hanging out as friends.

Ask her out, pick her up, take her somewhere, pay for everything, spend some time with her, and at the end of the date, walk her to her door and kiss her goodnight. Do not chicken out on this last part- it's important.

[anachronistic]

ok ill do that...

and how will i know if were actually "going out", do i have to ask her or can we like involve into it lol..

im sorry but im totally knew to relationships i havnt been this interested in a girl.

dude, you go on dates. just dates. casual. have fun. you know. if you can show her a good time, she'll be less interested in the other guys and more interested in you.

if she likes you, it'll continue into a long term boyfriend-girlfriend relationship, if you let it.

[anachronistic]

You need to ask her out to dinner or something official like that, so she doesn't think you're just hanging out as friends.

Ask her out, pick her up, take her somewhere, pay for everything, spend some time with her, and at the end of the date, walk her to her door and kiss her goodnight. Do not chicken out on this last part- it's important.

i always chicken out on the last part

do they always want the goodnight kiss? how can you tell? don't give me any of that bullshit from 'hitch' either

yea you can take her out to eat, but you don't have to. anywhere that you can talk and get to know eachother is better. avoid going to movie theaters and places like that where you won't be able to talk much.

[Gigabitch]

IMO, if there's no kiss, there's no date. That's the off-ramp to the Friend Zone.

[anachronistic]

there's usually moments when i sense a kiss coming. first kisses are always the best gotta make them special

[clynn]

I totally go in big time for a kiss on the first date. If I like him.

[Gribble]

NO first date kisses from me. First date ****s, sure. But kisses? Nope.

[anachronistic]

whys that gribble?

[Gribble]

I'm just not into that touchy feely crap.

[hi2u]

what if ive never kissed before lol... im scared lol. just like a 2 second kiss or actually lip lock with her?