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[anachronistic]

one of my friends is interested in me. she hasn't told me it, but it is obvious.

she is a really nice girl. i mean great personality. she is always nice to me. we have hung out a few times. we did go out on an unnofficial date to a local restaurant... it was a lunch. sometimes we go on walks together. she always hugs me. you know, she is just a really nice person. everybody is her friend.

i'm not sure if i want to make a move though. she is a junior in high school, and i am a freshman in college. and i know looks aren't everything, but i'm not very attracted to her that way. but she has the personality i am looking for.

what do you guys think?

[Miss hotty]

If i was you and a guy had the personality i was looking for but didn't have the looks i would still make ago of it with as looks don't really matter to me it's the person inside that matters

[Steve2004]

since we're all teenagers here..in my opinion attraction is a big deal.

you dont have to think she's HOT or dead sexy..or anything. But there has to be some sort of attraction.

[vashti]

I'm not a teenager, but I say forget it.

[Steve2004]

I'm not a teenager, but I say forget it.

i meant in the thread before me. /:

[zro]

i thought you were dating a german bitch??? anyway, there has to be some sort of physical attraction there for a romantic relationship to be possible, you dont have to think that she is the hottest thing out - but at least some sort of chemistry, if not its better to not lead her on and stay friends

[meh]

It sounds like you're shopping for a power drill. Doesn't sound at all romantic.

[Gigabitch]

I think you hate to be alone, little Lil'wing.

Just because she likes you doesn't mean you're obligated to do something about it. You're out of there in just a few months anyway. I hope you don't get all tangled up with somebody first, especially if they're just a "maybe" person.

[Junket]

Don't.

****in'.

Do it.

EDIT: And what Giga, said.

[DoesntMatter]

If you aren't attracted to her, but you like her personality and have fun with her, I would just keep her as a good friend.

[anachronistic]

i thought you were dating a german bitch??? anyway, there has to be some sort of physical attraction there for a romantic relationship to be possible, you dont have to think that she is the hottest thing out - but at least some sort of chemistry, if not its better to not lead her on and stay friends

Went on a few dates. Didn't work out. She flew back to Germany a few weeks ago and I haven't heard from her since.

[anachronistic]

gigabitch and frasbee, that is pretty much how i feel right now.

[Mathias]

I think you hate to be alone, little Lil'wing.

Quoted for mother****ing truth.

Find a girl you like, buddy.

[Sybella]

Its true that looks aren't everything and you do need to be attracted to their personality also but if your having doubts your best bet I think would just be friends. You'll have someone to confide in and wont have to worry about the physical aspect.

Of course there is always her feelings to consider. If she really likes you then just friendship may not fly. Don't date her out of sympathy though cause then she will just end up getting hurt.

[Only-virgins]

If i was you and a guy had the personality i was looking for but didn't have the looks i would still make ago of it with as looks don't really matter to me it's the person inside that matters

Oh Miss Hotty, sometimes you can be so funny

there has to be some sort of physical attraction there for a romantic relationship to be possible, you dont have to think that she is the hottest thing out - but at least some sort of chemistry, if not its better to not lead her on and stay friends

This is the right answer. There really is nothing else to be said so when ever someone posts garbage about how they are not attracted and this and that we should just post one post like the one above. That is it. If you are disgusted by someones looks it would seem really silly in my opinion to go with that person. Looks DO matter, they are not the be all and end all to everything but they do matter.