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    Confusing messages

    Ok so update:guy who is always teasing me and trying to get my attention but doesn't add me to facebook when he added all my friends including my best friend he barely talks to! Anyhow,I saw him today and he was talking to a friend so I walked past, said a quick hi to both. Guess, he didn't hear me b/c a second later he comes over to me and in this sarcastic tone he's like "You don't say hello to me?" As if he thought I had ignored him...so what gives? Doesn't add me to his friends list but G-d forbid if I don't say hi? What is his deal with me?

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    So if you're that upset, why haven't you added him?

    50 bucks you guys are both feeling the same thing.

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    Why don't you just add him, and find some excuse to ask him out. Don't keep wondering how he thinks, do something to find it out if you like him. =)

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    Why are you playing these silly games with each other? It's obvious that you're into each other.
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    maybe he's like me and doesn't give a shit about facebook. Or maybe him not adding you is yet another way of getting your attention. quit playing games!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lavender View Post
    Ok so update:guy who is always teasing me and trying to get my attention but doesn't add me to facebook when he added all my friends including my best friend he barely talks to! Anyhow,I saw him today and he was talking to a friend so I walked past, said a quick hi to both. Guess, he didn't hear me b/c a second later he comes over to me and in this sarcastic tone he's like "You don't say hello to me?" As if he thought I had ignored him...so what gives? Doesn't add me to his friends list but G-d forbid if I don't say hi? What is his deal with me?
    face book is gay. i hardly ever get on it, you're being very expectant of that.

    don't make a big deal out of little things like this.

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    still-- usually you add people to this stuff, 'cos the message tends to be like "x wants to be your friend!" and you feel bad not hitting 'accept'. I say he's playing a game.

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    yea he could be playing a game...

    urgh, i hate games.

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    *sigh* yeah. The best way to make someone stop playing is to not take part. Just say, I like you, if you like me, quit playing around, or i'll be moving on.

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    I like games.

    What are we playing?

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    actually, I like games too. but only when i'm in the mood.

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    This story sounds familiar and I think you posted it in another forum. So I will give you the same advice as I gave you there....


    Add him to facebook already! I'm sure he will accept. He is just trying to get your attention and see if you notice. Obviously it's driving you up a wall not having him request to add you. He is doing this because he wants to see how interested you are. So add him already! He probably doesn't have the balls to....
    Appreciate the good times and learn from the bad times....


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