they always have to travel in groups dont they *rolls eyes*

[bigfella247]

I like this girl yeah. She's been a hard nut for me to crack for about 3/4 year now. I've finally got some courage plucked up, and I believe that I'm ready for a relationship. I've hit a wall...everywhere that she is, other people, especially her girlfriends, around her. this is quite obviously making it hard for nervous little me to ask her if she'd like to see a movie/go out for a meal with humble ol' me.

what is your advice from you girls how I should approach this, waiting for the absolutely perfect moment when she peels off by herself just won't happen in any good amount of time and is abit unrealistic to be pinning all my hopes on.

[Gigabitch]

Well, have you given her any indication whatsoever that you are interested? Have you smiled at her? Let her catch you looking at her in that special way?

She might make herself more available for approach if she knows you want to.

[bigfella247]

I could possibly improve on that, though I do spend enough time distracted around her that my friends have noticed. I will up my efforts to get caught on the radar

[investiie]

how about starting a conversation with her.. and with her girlfriends also?

[bigfella247]

I do, every opportunity, hell many times I go out of my way to do so

[MyHeartIsUrHome]

give her a call sometime.. ask her if she'd like to go hang out or go for a walk or something just you and her. maybe she'll get a clue that you'd like to be alone for a reason.

[bigfella247]

its her birthday on the 15th. I plan on aasking her out then. In the meantime I am flirting with her a lot as best I can.