what does it say bout a relationship if you..

[muspi_2000]

What does it say bout your relationship if you find yourself masturbating to other girls, (occasionally ok not all the time) in particular celebrities such as lets say...Scarlett Johansson . Does it mean that you dont really love your partner as much as you think you do or is that perfectly normal

[vashti]

Perfectly normal. Just don't tell her, or she will be jealous, even if it is normal. She is going to want to believe you only have eyes for her.

[anachronistic]

What does it say bout your relationship if you find yourself masturbating to other girls, (occasionally ok not all the time) in particular celebrities such as lets say...Scarlett Johansson . Does it mean that you dont really love your partner as much as you think you do or is that perfectly normal

yea, it is perfectly normal, just don't touch other women..

[muspi_2000]

thanks, just wanted peoples opinion on it

[vorguen]

with my first love i honestly stopped getting turned on by porn and anything.. if i wantd my "happy time" i had to recall our own sexual experiences cuz nothing else worked

[muspi_2000]

with my first love i honestly stopped getting turned on by porn and anything.. if i wantd my "happy time" i had to recall our own sexual experiences cuz nothing else worked

i know exactly what you mean but..sometimes hmm..well hard to say, sometimes you, well me anyway, just have the urge

[Chris Tucker]

I wouldn't blame you if you got your cock our during the credits of rush hour 2.

[Gigabitch]

Meh, Scarlett Johansson. Not my favorite.

I think it's perfectly normal to think about other people, but only to a certain extent, and if you're thinking about someone else while you're actually in bed with your girlfriend, you might have a problem.

[Illusional]

giga masturbates to me all the time that i don't mind...

*stands tall and proud*

raverboy

[Tiay]

yep, perfectly normal. or, actually, some people would consider it 'cheating' and such, but I think that's BS. Men will always be fantasising about celebs, or the hot girl at work or whatever. as long as you don't touch, and it isn't excessive (ie. as giga pointed out) it's normal.

I actually talked about this with my bf once. Found it odd that the guys in my fantasies are basically anonymous nobodies.. less, in fact– they are irrelevant, almost non-existent, unless i'm having a specific fantasy about my bf.

[squirrley]

I think its normal to do it. Its all about the visual for some guys! Hell, I cant imagine nobody visualizing somebody while theyre taking care of themselves.

I wouldnt worry. I wouldnt tell her you do that either. Depending on the length of your relationship and the depth, that might not be something you want to share right now.