Dating a girl with a kid!

[a123]

I met this girl about a month ago, asked her out a few times and always got turned down..her excuse was that she has to take care of her sister..well i just left it at the, no biggy..then a few days ago i learned that her "sister" is actually her daughter. Boy that was a surprise

...i want to move on because im only 19, sophomore in college, i cant date someone with a kid..but at the same time i want to pursue her, i really like this girl and i think she really likes me....

anyone have any advise

[Gigabitch]

I have a kid, and I can tell you for sure that she comes first. Not only that, but my boyfriend had to understand and acknowledge that before I'd be serious about him.

You wouldn't be dating just her, you'd be dating both of them, in a way. She's a package deal at this point.

[vashti]

I think you are too young to be messing with someone's mother.