Tick Tock

[Tick]

Don't mind the thread name, I'm going to continue from one of my other threads. The other thread consisted of me asking for help (obviously) of what to do to introduce myself to a girl at college, IF I find her amongst 2000 students. The advice was simply go up to her and say "Hello!"

Well the good news is that she's practically in the same class I am in for 90% of my lessons. You can say we are in the same class. I can't believe it was that simple. Didn't need to search. ^^

Ok so first thing I usually do when I see a girl I like is lots and lots of body language. I've noticed that she checks me out often, (i.e. I look at her direction, I find her staring at me then she quickly turns away, or eyes meet, dammit I like that feeling.)

I've never sat next to her cause I don't have a clue what to say, how to introduce myself. I can't use the advice from my past thread, I'm too damn shy.

Anyways, the bad part, whilst we and a couple of more students were waiting for our next lesson to commence, she went next to her friend (a girl) and started chatting. Next to them was this guy, he looks all big and tough, the smoking kind. He said to them that he would leave if the tutor didn't come in the next minutes. At that moment I said in my mind, "Crap of all the girls at school why with her!?" At first I thought he was talking to her directly, I couldn't see to tell you the truth. Then I think her friend said something, I don't know to whom he was talking to but all 3 were talking to each other in the end.

Then this guy just couldn't wait anymore so he left, and the two girls with him, he placed himself between the two of them as they walked and sometimes shifted towards the girl I liked. At that point I fell into misery.

(NB: My last relationship has left me sore and stuff so I now find it normal to get obsessed and worried about these things, small or big.)

Obviously, according to human nature, next time we would have this lesson again, he would talk to them. So there you have it, tick tock the clock is ticking and my time is running out to do something.

As far as I know this guy is the only competition I've got, but I have the advantages of her being in the "same class as mine" and that there is a good amount of body language between us (If after all hers were directed to me and not the guy behind me, again scars of my past relationship.)

Ok questions questions questions spinning in my mind:
1) Does she like? (Scar thing again, although I have a strong feeling that she does.)
2) A good full-proof plan to introduce myself. I don't have the guts to go up and say hello, my desired type is like she drops some books on the floor, I go help her and we move on from there, thats an example, being in the same class should help me here. (No, asking help about a homework problem isn't going to pull it off.) Like in the movies lol.
3) Should I stop before I hurt myself (more, I feel miserable and I only know this girl a little) or continue trying?

Ok thankies a lot.

[Gigabitch]

Well, you are very familiar with the path of least resistance- why are you going there again? You keep putting yourself in the position of the friend guy. The one they complain about their boyfriend to as if you actually had a vagina. The one they ignore completely as they walk out of the room with some chump.

I think you know you have to be about three times more assertive than you are. Do it. No getting around it.

[gartlas]

I really liked a girl once,but left it too long and she ended up having a relationship with my best friend.when she broke up with him,she told me to get lost and I felt like shit for a couple of weeks.yep,u gotta move fast or u get left in the dirt and stepped over.shit happens,deal with it.

[Tick]

Crap today I had dozens of chances but was too shy to say anything. I think I'm gonna have to give myself a good doze of confidence.

[ExpoNovak]

Think about it this way: There is probably one of those guys in every one of her classes. In college everybody socializes with everybody all the time. Period. Just because a guy walked out of class with her one day that doesn't mean a damn thing.

Just have a couple of drinks before class, that ought to do ya in the confidence department.

[Tick]

Just have a couple of drinks before class, that ought to do ya in the confidence department.

........You know what, thats crazy enough to work.

[Junket]

Alcohol is not confidence.