what should i do?

[ryan7]

hi guys,

well my problem is there is that girl that i have always dreamed of

and i have always loved and now she is my gf.

the thing is that i always tell her how much i love her and seein her

with other boys before killed me and now she is my gf and i am the

happiest person on earth to be with her and i always do what she

says and i treat her like she is a queen and never makes her angry

and i always call her to tell her how much i love her and i always

get the response: Thanks!

well i get that part may she's not ready yet but the problem is

when i tell her that she always says that she cant love anyone

coz all guys are deceivers and cheaters.The problem that i havent cheated or deceived any girl my whole life and she knows that for sure and she always says she cant open her heart for anyone even she doesnt trust her own parents and she's just tryin to protect herself from being hurt and how she cant afford to lose someone she loves and it will kill her.

Am I doin anything wrong plz tell me coz that girl i cant see mylife without girl.I always imagine myself married to her and i just love her so much beyond what you can imagine but she always makes me miserable and the worst thing she has just said yesterday that my kind of guys is the worst she said " the shy and calm guys are the worst kind coz if he got rid of his shyness he will be an ass and will do all kind of shit". I told her "am i that guy do you see me that way?". she said " nothin personal but its just my theory about that kind of guys".

if anyone said that kind of stuff about me i will tell them to **** themselves and i dont want to see them again but not in that situation coz i love her and i think i could die without her i love every thing about even though she isnt that perfect.

am i doin anything wrong ? plz tell me i dont wanna lose the love of life

[Al Pacino]

I blame you in one point Rayan ... you should extract your personality for her ... prove you are a different ...

[Moonchild]

She's your girlfriend. She's giving you a chance. She's still with you, so you're not doing anything wrong. But the only way to earn a complete trust is to give her the experience; keep doing what you're doing, and she'll eventually trust that you aren't going to be dishonest. She'll go on at her own pace, and you can be there when she's ready to love.

[Gigabitch]

She sounds broken, and she seems to want to make you pay for it. That kind of pisses me off. Doesn't she trust her own judgment at all? Life sucks sometimes, so she's going to ensure that it sucks all the time, just so she knows the forecast?

Convince me that this girl is worth dating.

[ryan7]

She sounds broken, and she seems to want to make you pay for it. That kind of pisses me off. Doesn't she trust her own judgment at all? Life sucks sometimes, so she's going to ensure that it sucks all the time, just so she knows the forecast?

Convince me that this girl is worth dating.

is it wrong that i sometimes wonder that myself but i always

miss her and i couldnt picture mylife without her.I just love her i cant help it.

but is there anything i can do coz i really want this to work i really love her.How can i prove that i am different and i really adore her.

[squirrley]

Keep true to yourself. Do NOT change for her. Its so important to keep to your own identity. If she cant see who the real you is, than this isnt the person you belong with in the long run.

Believe me when I say, when you get married you've accepted EVERY aspect of that persons personalty EVERY quality whether you like it or not. ACCEPTANCE and TRUST are probably the two most important factors in a successful relationship. Just keep those in mind.

Dont change for anyone to cater to their desires!!!

[miSSleepy]

I dfon't know, both of you seem to be at two points of extremes, and I don't see it working in the long run. She won't emotionally commit and is a cynic, and you're giving way too much of yourself emotionally. Kind of a disaster in the making.