Just got out of a relationship

[purple-xed]

I haven't seen him for months and I really thought about this. So yesterday, we met and i told him that I couldn't handle the relationship anymore. He looked at me with a blank expression, I continued telling him that not knowing anything about him was a reason, distance was in fact making it difficult. I then asked if he would say anything, he told me that if i had thought about it then he couldn't do anything and now that we were broken up what could he do to make it easier for me. I said there was nothing and all i needed was to be alone.

I know it's proud of me to have wanted a more emotional break-up. I mean at least if he said something more I knew that what we had meant something, it meant something to me (that's why i was so hard up in telling him and still want to be friends) but he didn't even tell me what he thought. Is it right for me to fuss over something that's already done

[Michael6084]

i think if something's already done, dont fuss over it, but i think it's always good to look back and reflect on some things that could have been better and what a person could have done in themselves to make a relationship better. just don't stress over it.

but if i was the guy, i would have said as much as he said. while you've been thinking about it apparently for a good while, this is a big surprise to him.

i think the biggest fuss is that whole "let's be friends" deal. i can almost assure you that he will NOT look at you just as a friend after this though.

[nintendozelda]

hello, I just wanted to say that you should forget about the past... and perhaps start another new relationship

[trulyblesd]

I think you may need some "you" time! Find out what you need and want in life. Try doing things by yourself for awhile, and be your own best friend! It will help, trust me! and it makes you stronger too the next guy who comes around will be attracted by the fact that you're happy in your own skin.