I've been with a girl for abit over a year now. I'm very inlove with her and she means the world to me. We have had issues where I'm not romantic enough and I've thought she didnt want me so i kissed another woman to make her dump me because she wouldnt dump me otherwise.. however I realised i had approached that in completely the wrong way when I told her the next day and she dumped me but for some reason took me back and I count myself as the luckiest person on earth. Since then I have tried to communicate with her clearly and havent dealt with my emotions in such a stupid way, although since she's my first girlfriend (I wasn't into relationships until I met her) and stuff I find it really hard to express my emotions and be romantic and I know she craves romance. Because of this lack of romance and trust she put me on a break a while ago. Neither of us have messed around with anyone else during this break although she is pretty flirtatious with other guys and she has been kissed by them or they have tried, but I guess I only have myself to blame for that. Anyway the topic of a threesome came up and I freaked out because i've never experienced anything like this before. She has experienced a fair few and she does like them. She's bisexual. What was proposed was that she bring a female who is in a relationship into the threesome and then she participates in a threesome with that female and female's male partner. This is scary because where are the boundaries? I don't want to **** another female, but what If she ends up ****ing another male? I don't know how i'd react. Because she has said that a ffm threesome before ended up with the guy ****ing her. This wouldn't happen if you laid out the boundaries though would it? And i thought it might be a good idea because it could build trust in the relationship? Anyway I'm rather new at this sort of thing and would love some advice from both sides. Cheers