premarital sex

[lostlove69]

What do guys think about girls who refuses premarital sex or at least wait a couple of years in a relationship before she would have sex? For a guy who says sex is the second most important thing for him in a relationship, would he dump her for another girl?

[DoesntMatter]

If I found a girl who I liked a lot and the feeling was mutual, I would wait. Then again I'm a virgin too and the prospect of any relationship is pretty much gold for me.

You didn't say how old you were but age will definitely play a role. If you are in your 20s it is very unlikely to find someone who will wait. But if you are 16 or maybe 18 there are guys who will.

Realize though that you might change your mind I think a lot of people do.

[vashti]

I hope this vigin wasn't born in 1969. That would be sad.

[xmoongirlx]

Agree with DM, if love is in both sides it's possible for the relationship to work, look at me up to now it's working and it's been 8 months! LOL

[Al Pacino]

I am already agree with XMOONGILEX opinion

[miSSleepy]

and I agree with Al Pacino










actually, no, I don't, but that's me

[Zenmarke]

I agree with miSSleepy >_>

[Moonchild]

With regard to what xmoongirlx said, I agree that it's entirely possible for a relationship to work if both partners share the view. But what I'm worried about in the above scenario is sex as the second most important thing--it occurs to me that perhaps the guy would try to pressure the girl into having sex? It sounds like it'd be the root of argument. It really only works if both people agree on the issue.

[miSSleepy]

sex in the second place seems pretty realistic to me

[Moonchild]

Not for any of the people I've dated. >> But I guess it partly depends on what's in first place--if it's personality, cool. If it's hair, WTF. XD

[miSSleepy]

Not for any of the people I've dated. >> But I guess it partly depends on what's in first place--if it's personality, cool. If it's hair, WTF. XD

haha! Then I'd be more worried about the hair in first place than sex in second. I was more assuming that personality and character are in the first place and sex/sexual intimacy are in the second.

[CAM]

What do guys think about girls who refuses premarital sex or at least wait a couple of years in a relationship before she would have sex? For a guy who says sex is the second most important thing for him in a relationship, would he dump her for another girl?

Do what is right for you. Don't let a guy make you decide keeping him as a boyfriend and putting out for his pleasure. Don't want to do it, then don't do it.