Truth of the matter.

[bohemiandonut]

Go home little girl, and look at yourself in the mirror. Now rate yourself from 1 to 10. The closer you are to ten, that's how much of a cunt you can be and get away with it.

[Mish]

So are you saying that a woman's (Or a girl's) self perception is directly linked to her being mean to people and how much she can get away with it?

Just wanted to clairfy

[miSSleepy]

what if someone perceives themself to be higher on that scale then they actually are?

[vashti]

I agree with donut. Attractive people CAN get away with being bigger jerks than lesser-attractive people can... and it pisses off the majority of the population, so we pretend it isn't true.

[Mish]

I agree with donut. Attractive people CAN get away with being bigger jerks than lesser-attractive people can... and it pisses off the majority of the population, so we pretend it isn't true.

But did he also mean that the more attractive looking women have a tendency to be bigger jerks than less attractive ones?

[vashti]

But did he also mean that the more attractive looking women have a tendency to be bigger jerks than less attractive ones?

No, at least that's not the way I read it.

[Mish]

Perhaps I misunderstood then

[miSSleepy]

"that's how much of a cunt you can be AND get away with it"

[misombra]

i agree too. people just have a perception that looking good equals being good.

although looking good has it's own set of problems. also people have that same perception of guys too. good looking guys get away with a lot of bullshit.

i read something about this a while back.

[IndiReloaded]

Go home little girl, and look at yourself in the mirror. Now rate yourself from 1 to 10. The closer you are to ten, that's how much of a cunt you can be and get away with it.

And the harder the lesson is to learn that it doesn't really matter in the end.

'Less attractive' ppl seem to get more in touch with their humanity sooner in life, and are less phased when thing don't always go their way.

I was a completely f ucked up, privileged, snotty bitch when I was younger. To my credit, I didn't break too many hearts but I had other issues. It took a couple of really good wake up calls to drag me out of World of Me to realize that need to be special (at other ppls expense) was just overcompensating for the fact that, really, we're all in this together.

FWIW.