Confused

[boobaa]

Hello!

I was questioning myself weather this thread would fit more into love advice or into dumped hearts section. So I am sorry if anyone feels it might be the wrong place, but I thought it is somehow connected with both strings.

Anyway, here is the problem.

Recently I met a very nice, funny, talkative, cute and adorable girl who I like. She gets 23 in Dec and I am still 19 years old. We have been talking really lot and hugging etc for about couple of months now. Recently things got hotter. Couple of days ago, we had our first kiss and have sheared the great emotion ever since.
The thing is though, today she tells me she is on the break-up edge in 2 year relationship with her boyfriend who is in his 30's but whom she still wants to be friends with. Needless to say this came as a shock to me. At first I felt a bit used and confused, but then she really told me that she has missed me whenever I was away and wants to be with me. And the big problem is, her ex has a company where she works..
For both of us, things have been progressing really fast and this makes things even more confusing. Oh, and we are on the same course in school....

Currently I am a bit confused what should I do. I know she needs time to set things straight for her. But is there any hope, can things really develop so quickly? At the same time, i want to be with her, but then again, I don't want to ruin her life as it may happen. And even more I hate it when things are left hanging in the air.

Any thoughts or advice are welcome.

[Moonchild]

Well, here's two things to think about. One, she obviously isn't happy with him, since she started getting involved with you. To be honest, I think it's best that she get out of that relationship with him and figure herself out. As for the other guy, that's the perfect example of why getting involved with someone at work can be a really bad idea. Two, are you sure you want to be with a girl who essentially cheated on her boyfriend with no remorse? Would you trust her not to do the same thing to you in the future?

[boobaa]

You are right, Moonchild, thank you.
But right now, we both feel really bad. I feel bad because now, after all this, she is a big nervous breakdown. I don't think she is a cheater, firstly, she told me that her past relationship is almost over and as far as i understood she is only connected to him as a friend who work together. But her ex seems to be still somehow attached to her...
Right now I feel really bad. I want to be with her but at the same time I am thinking about ending all this ( I don't know how) because I don't want to ruin someones life. She seemed to be quite depressed about the situation. I won't be breathing on her back thats for shure.

Damn, this thing is a mess.