Spanking

[Charlie Boy II]

Some nights, when the mood is right and my girl is feeling a special kind of carnal, she likes to get spanked. She likes to get spanked hard. As her boyfriend and sexual partner it is incumbent on me to administer the spankings.

It is a new experience for me, and not an entirely unpleasant one either. However the the next morning finds me a little mystified and more than a little bemused. If I bring the subject up in the bright light of day my girlfriend turns beetroot red and shushes me with an urgent slap to the shoulder, so she has been decidedly unhelpful as a source of information.

So I was wondering, do other forum members have much experience with spanking? How do you feel about spanking? Females, if you like to be spanked, why do you?

Curious,

Charlie Boy

[misombra]

come on charlie, you have to let the freak out. i know it's inside of you.

[Charlie Boy II]

Hey look I'm not talking about a couple of playful slaps to the behind here. It's like I'm beating the dust out of an enormous rug. Her whole ass turns bright red. I'm up for it, I'm just wondering what other people's experiences are?

[BVSensation27]

i acutally love being spanked during intercourse and sometimes during foreplay. it brings a wild side out of me, i don't know why i guess it's because i have a high sex drive.

[Gribble]

I love to spank. But girls never let me. At best I can squeeze in a little love tap. Lucky bastard.

[Junket]

I've only thrown in some playful spanks, or ass grabs well before the clothes ever come off.

[DoesntMatter]

It's like I'm beating the dust out of an enormous rug. Her whole ass turns bright red.

I've seen this stuff in pornos before

[Gigabitch]

For some people, the first time they experience sexual arousal is during a spanking (over someone's knee, sexual organs being rubbed by said knee as spanking is done), and then there's the possibility that she feels dirty about some of the things she enjoys, and being "punished" for them means she can freely enjoy them.

Personally, I've never really been into it. I'd go for it if Cali Boy wanted to do it, but he hasn't initiated this, and I suppose it's just as well.

[Charlie Boy II]

She's only really gotten into it a few times when she's been drunk. It's funny because when we first started dating I'd give her a playful slap on the behind (not during sex) and she'd look at me like "what do you think you're doing."

They're very possibly true, but neither of your explanations giga, are particularly nice to think about. I guess with these things it's best not to look too hard for their origins. Just enjoy them.

[vashti]

Does she enjoy other forms of masochism as well, charlieboy?

[squirrley]

Oh yea I love getting spanked ONLY when my hubby is behind me and were going at doggy style. Gawd that turns me on! But nothing too hard. I like to hear the slap and maybe a little red mark is ok, but nothing hard core. It does bring a little kinkiness out of me!

[Charlie Boy II]

Does she enjoy other forms of masochism as well, charlieboy?

nah, not at all. I mean she likes to get f-cked really hard, but she doesn't like me to hit her or anything else. We've talked about tying each other up but she was more interested in tying me up. Once I held her arms together behind her head because i thought it might turn her on, but it didn't.

[vashti]

Hmm.. interesting. I myself have never been spanked, so I can't say for sure, but I can't imagine it going over well.

[IndiReloaded]

I have to agree w/Giga. I find it hard to imagine anyone getting off on a spanking unless they have some kind of shame issue w/sex. Like Giga, I'd go for it if my partner wanted to try, but the idea doesn't do much for me.

Now, tying up is another story. One good reason for it is it allows a particularly strong orgasm, esp for someone who has trouble letting go completely or is very strong & might inadvertently injure their partner were they to do so. Esp if there is a prolonged period of rising excitement w/o allowing release. It has its uses.

[Gigabitch]

Once I held her arms together behind her head because i thought it might turn her on, but it didn't.

I can't even imagine not being turned on by that.

Hmmmm. Was she spanked as a child?