My first break up

[Heavenboy10]

Yesterday, me and my gf got into argument again, so i hung out with my friends and talked with them. I told them that i didn't think my relationship with her could last any longer, so i told them that i wanted to break up with my gf. Unexpectedly, all my friends told me that they actually didn't really like my gf because she was so rude to them. However, they didn't want to tell me until yesterday because they respected my descision. I was kind of shocked.
So this morning, i made my descision and broke up with gf.
Right now, i don't feel happy but i don't feel sad either. i am kind of in the middle. Is that normal? Can anyone tell me ?

[Moonchild]

Yeah, that's normal. You're not happy because you started going out with her for a reason--you liked some qualities that you'll miss. You're not sad because you thought about this a good deal, and you had reason to break it off with her. You might start missing her a bit later, but never forget why you broke up with her in the first place. It'll stop a lot of the going-back-to-the-ex heartaches I tend to see.

[DarkDwarf]

Yes, make sure you clean up with the BACAMO...

You don't want to be going back to the Ex... though sometimes you don't need a pBACAMO (permanent Break All Contact And...) and it only needs to be temporary... for instance I am very good friends with one of my Exs.

[Mish]

Right now, i don't feel happy but i don't feel sad either. i am kind of in the middle. Is that normal? Can anyone tell me ?

That means that you trust you've made the right decision. With time it will become easier for you. It's a good thing that you have the support of your frineds in this difficult decision. If so many of your friends think she was rude then this is probably for the best