So theres my ex-girlfriend right. We were together ~3 years ago but since we broke up we have become best friends. I mean we are really close. So anyways she just got out of a relationship of about 1 year and four months. She is like depressed and so sad and just wants to be loved and cared for again. So anyways while as me being the best friend I gotta help her through this problem shes going through with the break up and I got to cheer her up and stuff so we've been hanging out a bit more lately. So anyways shes never felt like this before and keeps saying that she just wants someone to hold and be with again and feel cared for.
So we were talking late last night just lying down under the stars having a conversation then she says. "You know, everyone always asks why you and me are not together." I said yeh everyone of my friends and stuff ask the same thing. I then said yeh but I think you and me do make a good couple though just the way we get along and stuff. She says "yehh you think so? It's funny though because your like a brother to me now."
I'm like yehh we have gotten really close.
So as we were lying down she was just like "I wish I just had someone to hold my hand and to cuddle with and stuff. I miss it so much." Me in my head I am thinking wow this girl is really feeling depressed and wants to feel cared for again. I think it's some sort of hint to me like yehh she wants me to hold her hand and cuddle with her and stuff. So anyways I know shes going through this breakup stress and stuff and no I do not want to be a rebound or her little cuddle buddy toy thing. So after a short pause of silence I said "I really do not know what you are going through right now but yehh." lol I didn't know what to sayy
I mean I like this girl I really do think that we could be together but if something were to happen I wouldn't want it to be right now. I also do not want to risk what we have. She just got out of her relationship and loves her ex-boyfriend. I don't want to her or see her cry about this guy if she wants to be with me. I'll be a damn rebound to help her get over it. Though I don't even know if a relationship is what she really wants. She says she needs sex too.
So I really don't know what she is trying to do with me or wants to do. I do care for this girl but wouldn't want anything right now because of her situation. This was just way to sudden also I don't know if I want anything period even though we do seem perfect for each other.
Should this situation even bother me? What should I do? Should I just not do anything and just talk to her as a best friend as I always have been? I do not even want to try anything because I know she is very vulnerable right now and it's just that shes feeling lonely and wants to be pleasured and cared for. So I do not want to be this little boy toy or rebound. What should I do? What should I tell her? What do you think of the situation? What do you think she really wants?