I have been seeking advice about my situation for a while, but still dont know how to go about this.
I havent talked to my b/f of four years in about 6 weeks. Well I feel that this is an adequate amount of space to be taken from the relationship.
The fact that we live together has been hard b/c during this he hasnt lived at home.
I think it is time we settle things once and for all b/c him not talking to me can only go on for so long. To me he has had time to really decide what he wants. I just want closure for my own peace of mind b/c we havent had a conversation about what we are going to do from here.
I have left him a few voicemails asking how he has been and of course to say sorry and acknowledge that my behavior was not fair to him. Since he has not returned those calls, I am not sure how to go about dealing with all of this. He has not come home for anything. We have his and her closets b/c we have so many belongings and the second bedroom was turned into his studio b/c he loves music, so of course all of that stuff has remained.
I have been optimistic through this b/c I have hoped we will work things out. I just dont know how to really reach him b/c I have made strides to be better for me as well as our relationship (I have been in therapy for the past 6 weeks learning better ways to deal with stress).
Any advice would be helpful. He is on aol right now so I have been tempted to instant message him but I wanted objective advice on how to go about this.