She has emotional baggage from the past (friends lied to her/boyfriends cheated) and now I somehow am responsible for what they did to her in the past.
How can I help her check her baggage at the door?
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14-12-07, 10:40 AM #1
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Emotional Baggage
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14-12-07, 11:19 AM #2
atada a mis pies.
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take the packages, and her, to the curb.
baby ya hustle. but me i hustle harder.
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14-12-07, 11:33 AM #3
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Yes.
Originally Posted by misombra
_____________"Why are you an atheist?"
"because I paid attention in science class."
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14-12-07, 11:45 AM #4
atada a mis pies.
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yes. yes! YES!!!!!
[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7ekLRUjqSpw"]YouTube - Yes Morphine[/ame]Last edited by misombra; 14-12-07 at 11:47 AM.
baby ya hustle. but me i hustle harder.
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14-12-07, 10:06 PM #5
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Listen to misombra. She knows stuff. Originally Posted by misombra
Besides, why the hell do people put up with this crap?
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15-12-07, 05:49 AM #6
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You guys are impossible! So at the first sign of trouble, you abandon plans and move on? She's a person too and needs help...besides, I like her.
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15-12-07, 06:07 AM #7
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Are you planning on being her lover or her therapist? You can't be both. SHE needs to work through this BEFORE she gets into another relationship. Otherwise the relationship you want RIGHT NOW will fail. She will never fully trust you. Originally Posted by wethepeople18
Would you want to date a person addicted to drugs before they admit to the fact that they need therapy?
So get out of the rescue, knight in shining armour mode, and find a girl who is stable and ready for a relationship.
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15-12-07, 06:37 AM #8
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i was dating this guy a month ago and he told me he caught his ex cheating on him twice and would call me all the time and make cracks if i was out w/ other people that i was seeing other people and it was just a long string of stuff. like getting upset even if i said another chick had a nice ass.
i am weary of those people.
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