i can't really deal with talking to people face to face though about anything i'm not controling.
If you are unable to handle plainly expressing what you want in a relationship, I can't see you getting what you want out of it.

i was hoping on just getting both of us really wasted and then doing the whole shpiel. is that unadvisable as well?
If you're looking for a relationship that requires you to drink in order to communicate on such a level, go ahead...

~Sphinx