confused...are we just friends or more??

[mS.terious]

ahm,there is this guy i’ve been very close to…he calls me sis and i call him “kuya”(meaning big brother)….i can’t figure out if he likes me…or if there’s a time that he liked me….we used to be so close…whenever there’s no class…he used to sit beside me…”very close” that our arms are brushing each others arms..he used to lay his head on my shoulder…please help me…is that something other than being closed friends???but the problem is he already have a gf…but then i’ve found out from our friend that he had confessed that if he’s only single he’ll court me…what do you think???

[TheSphinx]

Don't dwell on it. Get out and meet some other guys. If he's not that serious with his current girlfriend, but is still into you, he'll probably give you more attention. If not, you're still meeting other attractive guys.

~Sphinx

[mainload]

Yeah. I agree. Move on and meet other guys.

[reeba]

For starters maybe the two of you should stop calling eachother 'sis' and 'brother'. That is a total mood killer. Don't know what country you are from, but here in the US, incest is frowned upon.

I would tell your mutual friend that maybe he should go ahead and obtain 'single' status. He might have confided in the mutual friend to find out if YOU are interested.