First off, id like to say that this girl i have been seeing is absolutely amazing!!! I have never even felt one tenth for another girl as i feel for this one. I am lead to the question, if this isnt love, what is? She feels the same way i do as well, she has told me so.....
But, in our tradition (we have same exact background), many parents dont see any point to girls dating if it isnt going to be for marriage, so since we are both 18, i wouldnt be accepted becaue im not ready for marriage( if i was like 24, it'd be different.) Plus the fact that im not a millionare with a bmw doesnt bode well for me, lol (but its a serious thing, sad aint it?). Anyways, i, personally, have come to the conclusion, that even if we'll be dating in secret, she is 100% worth it. But it is still so discouraging, i want to tell everyone how i feel, and that i am dating the best girl in the world. I wouldnt even be able to tell my uncle (who i live with) because we live in the same community, and boy do people talk. I would never be able to hang out with her in our town, only when she is visiting my dorm (we go to same university). I needed, some advice, what do you guys think i should do? what tips do you have for "secret" dating?Thanks a lot