
Originally Posted by
abar2
well...one of my friends was talking to me about a party he was at and how one of the girls say's she won't suck anything under 14inches and how they were all talking about how any guy under 10 inches is small.
Ugh.. (first of all, what girls say, and what they mean are two different things.. sometimes day and night! "ever heard a girl say she wants a smart, sweet, sensitive, nice guy and then she kisses her dumbfcuk, caveman, @sshole bf?")
Under such a situation, these are clearly insecure girls.. (the fact that they would talk about the minimum standards of what they would suck, suggests that they need female-sexual-power validation.. and the way they go about it is by talking about sex to feel that validation and satisfy their insecurity)
Further validation-seeking and (female-bragging) is shown by them talking about her (minimum standards; which suggests they haven't seen a human penis in their life).. this is (female-bragging).. ever notice profiles on myspace/facebook/friendster/orkut/etc? Have you had the luxury of reading an essay-long description of what some girl is looking for in a guy? (This is her subconscious trying to brag to the entire world that she has standards, high standards, this is her ego seeking to feel like a high quality woman..)
Truth of the matter.. women don't know what they want.. She'll say she wants someone sensitive, but she'll find such a wimp unattractive and will go for the more challenging guy.. She'll say she wants a minimum of 10 inches and would actually like a 14 inch penis.. but let her try and deepthroat one and she'll gladly take in a 7-9inch penis.. (plus, more experienced women will be more concerned with the girth rather than the length)
Solution?
- You can laugh at it and call her sh*t (that's usually what I do)
- You can do some female-bragging of your own (flaunt your super-high-standards to target her female insecurities "talk about legs, butt, face, skin, teeth, breasts, stomach, etc" and watch as every standard you have sends her ego down the drain.. (she won't sh*t-call you, because doing so will be sh*t-calling herself; that would make her a hypocrite.. plus she'll be too busy being shot down.. I do this for women i'm not interested in)
Notice:
Guys won't flaunt standards to women they're interested in, because they don't want to scare her away or shoot down her ego and make her feel inadequate..
Girls have a different logic.. they feel the need to flaunt, because they feel it shows how much of a high quality woman she is to have such high standards.. (he's not going to think i'm easy or someone who'll settle for just anyone).. [this is also a confidence-gauge-test, if you know why she's doing it and what it REALLY means, it shouldn't shake you.. but if you're inexperienced and have low confidence in your male-value, it will bother you]
In short, (standards) are nothing more than generic, politically correct words that are stated to make her feel good about herself and seek validation for the quality of female she is.. (nice, sweet, sensitive, funny, fun, interesting, smart, etc..).. Fake standards like (14 inch d*cks) are clearly there as confidence-gauge-tests, female-bragging, validation-seeking, and perhaps her flaunting to you (to peacock that she's a high quality female) because she's interested (which goes back to her testing you).. This doesn't mean that she means anything from what she's said, or that any of these standards are real..
If you can't stop the Wind, then you can't stop the Storm.