this is a little long..so please bare with me. It hurts so bad..not just what happen and how it happen but in the manner she is handling it.
I know all of you have seen my post abot my situation..Known this person been friends since 2000. We clicked relationship wise in may this year and became a couple on august 21. She lived in vegas I lived in California. Everything seemed great, my love dher we talked about kids, marriage everything. She brought that first BTW. She spent thanksgiving with me at my moms house for 7 days and i spent christmas and new years at her house for 9 days. everything seemed great, a few days after christmas she said she had never been happier in her life and she was so happy i was there. we got in a few arguments near the end of the trip and the last day when we were in bed before her taking me to the airport she made the comment if i do sleep with other girls make sure you wear a condom, but tell me the truth she will love me no matter what. well she later says a few weeks later she doesn't think she loves me anymore that was after a weekend i could not get a hold of her at all. so then comes over to see me on jan 19 and is blushing saying how much she missed me, hugging and kissing me and then says how she confused she is. i ask her is it another guy she looks me in the eye and says no. we end the conversation she says lets take it one step at a time.
have not heard from her since, everyone says give her space. i do. i don't contact her at all for two weeks. i then said her a voice message saying hi and seeing how she is doing. get no response ok more space. well valentines day is here. my mom and her bf go to vegas for vday weekend. well my mom was close with her so she wanted to go eat at where she works what does she find out when she calls there to ask if she will be there so she can request her, they tell her that she requested both thursday and friday off. but she will be working on saturday.
who calls of work for vday and the day after if you are single, that is the proof she lied to me not once but twice.
she still doesn't know i know or that my mom is their in vegas
i called her today to wish a happy vday and hope to hear ffrom her soon.
tell me why would she lie and continue to lie, i mean if she is with a guy now why just come out and say it instead of me contacting her. is she keeping me on standby in case this doesn't work, is that what she meant by one step at a time. To me it has to be an ex bf for it to be that quickly after us breaking up..
no mean remarks here..if you are going comment be honest and please give the reasons for it..
what shall I do if anything?