Ex boyfriend is being an asshole. Got my ego bruised. Is it a good idea to get revenge..its really tempting. Have any ideas to get back at him?
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06-03-08, 08:26 AM #1
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got my ego bruised
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06-03-08, 08:28 AM #2
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Yeah. Cut all contact forever. That will teach him.
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
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06-03-08, 08:30 AM #3
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Living well is the best revenge.
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06-03-08, 09:25 AM #4
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What did he do?
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
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06-03-08, 09:48 AM #5
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well...i broke up with my exboyfriend but we remain "friends"...we're still talking now. He was whining and acting really resentful during our post break up. I think what i did was really immature because instead of working things out with him, I broke things off. It was a stupid rash decision. Then now I asked him if he wants to work things out again and he did a 180 on me and said he doesn't feel that way about me cuz he says feelings change. I guess i don't hate him, I like him but I am just frustrated about the whole thing cuz its like we're playing this game to see who can hurt each other more. Or...i am just delusional...maybe feelings have changed and he just doesn't like me that way anymore.
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07-03-08, 03:36 AM #6
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Ugh. You're BOTH being assholes. Stop trying to hurt each other and move on with your lives!
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07-03-08, 03:44 AM #7
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True. I have decided to cut all contact with him. I can tell he hates me but he has a hard time letting go. I have that problem too. But this time cutting contact is probably the best thing for us.
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07-03-08, 03:52 AM #8
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Totally. It's the right thing to do. Do you have any of his stuff- any reason he could use as an excuse to keep in touch?
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07-03-08, 04:10 AM #9
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lol. No. Good thing we are not living with each other.
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07-03-08, 04:47 AM #10
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He's just lashing out b/c you hurt him. You gave him a window to reject you & he took it. Good for you; it saved him 'face'. Trying to get back at him for it will just escalate the situation. Ignore it & stop trying to engage him.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
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07-03-08, 09:09 PM #11
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Go on dates...
It’s hard to find someone whom u truly love, much less to find someone who loves u as much.
When the chance comes, don't ever let go.
