what do u think ;]

[hamlet]

okay so theres this guy I volunteer with in my church group who i like, but idk if he likes me. the way I look at it we are so similar..we have the same interests and have the same problems. and I dont know whether or not he likes me, but he always comes up to me and talks to me whenever he can, and acts weird whenever I talk to other guys. And also he acts the same exact way that I do when I'm with someone that i like. We've NEVER talked before...ever...and I didn't even know him until like two weeks ago where we just started talking and that's when I started liking him, and when he started to kinda...follow me around and start conversations? I think he might just be friendly and just wants to be friends, though, because I'm not sure but he seems to act that way with all the girls he's friends with. But we are pretty close like friend-wise and we talk a lot. Plus apparently my friend who knows him says he has a girlfriend but he's never mentioned that to me, and when i asked him he said he didn't.

So yeah. what do u think?

[mesocyclone88]

It's possible that he's attracted to you, but it would be wise to get to know him a little more to see where he's coming from. My advice would be to ask him out to coffee or to go grab lunch and get to know him a little better if you'd be comfortable with that. Just some place out in public where you guys can find out what else you have in common and what's going on in your life. This helps with awkwardness or shyness if you have problems with this. And hey, if it ends up he isn't interested, you always have a new friend.