Strange Story....

[tempusfugit]

So basically i errrm slept with a guy i kinda knew through friends on new years eve and kinda just kept things distant between us (not really seen each other much, but we were fine with each other and there wasn't no awkwardness...) but i can't seem to get him outta my head, i slept with someone else like three weeks ago and still the other guy is all i can think about...

My friends keep taking the piss saying i'm in love with him, i don't know what love is but he ties my stomach up in knots and i know that me and him probably will never have a relationship with each other, i dunno he probably just sees me as his mate he shagged, i just don't know what to do should i just TRY to forget him again?

[Gigabitch]

No, why should try to forget someone you may be in love with? Elaborate, please, about why this isn't something you're willing to pursue. Is it really just because you assume he's not into it?

Wait, is this the same guy who's been kinda blowing you off?

[tempusfugit]

I'm scared...
Scared of being ****ed over, scared of looking like a fool...

[Gigabitch]

Welcome to Scaredsville. Population six billion. It's a crappy place.

[tempusfugit]

Yup... I'm not into being scared.

[Cain]

Then you're never going to have a real relationship. Relationships are all about taking a chance and doing something that you'd never want to do... open your heart and risk breaking it.

[tempusfugit]

I have had my heart broken in the past don't get me wrong...
I'm more afraid of making a fool of myself then having to see him again and things... I don't wanna look too pushy or stalkerish either!

[Cain]

I have had my heart broken in the past don't get me wrong...
I'm more afraid of making a fool of myself then having to see him again and things... I don't wanna look too pushy or stalkerish either!

Look at it this way... if you are too afraid, there's a 100% chance that you and him will never have a chance. If you take the chance, there's a 50% chance that things will work out.

Only one of those options has you walking away with him.

[tempusfugit]

Hmmmmm, i suppose... Part of me wants him to ask me though, and him not asking me... Makes me think he's not bothered anyway.

[Cain]

Hmmmmm, i suppose... Part of me wants him to ask me though, and him not asking me... Makes me think he's not bothered anyway.

Well, it seems obvious that you were just a booty call since he hasn't called you or anything since it happened.

But maybe he's just too shy?

[tempusfugit]

No... We've seen each other and spoken quite a bit since it happened but... Neither of us has ever brought up other things. IE relationships.

[Cain]

No... We've seen each other and spoken quite a bit since it happened but... Neither of us has ever brought up other things. IE relationships.

Well then you only have two choices.. wait until he makes a move or make one in case he doesn't.

Either that or let it go. It's not complicated.

[Illusional]

one good f*ck always deserves another.

raverboy