Trust

[frustrated_love]

I have a problem. I am wit a woman who I love so much and she does love me. She has been hurt in the past and I think she has trust issues for reasons of a past relationship.

Trouble is if there is some hearsay, somebody says something that is totally not true she suddenly takes it in like it is true and then goes on on and falls out with me. This time it may be for good.

The thing is I have been nothing but honest with her throughout. I wouldn't do anything to hurt her either.

I am one of the most understanding blokes I think you will ever meet. All I want is for her to be honest, and be herself. I can trust.

What can I do?

[sine24]

its really hard for a person to learn to trust someone again if they've been tossed around in the past. what exactly happened to her? did her ex cheat on her?

[for_u_i_will]

hey guy!! don't worry!! if u really love her by heart,somedays she will understand!! u must be patient

[Illusional]

what can you do?? stop worrying for beginners.

ok, so you put all of your efforts into making your gf believe you so why should you be stuck with the short end of the stick? meaning, why should you deal with her past because she was cheated on by a lot of assholes?? hey, she has to be willing to meet you half way and if she's not willing to do that, then are you willing to get into a 80/20 percent relationship where you are the sucker??

raverboy