I want to get my ex wife back

[kanefan69]

Hi
i been divorced for over 6 years
My ex and i see each other every day we talk on the phone and in person everyday
she invites me to meet her and her girlfriends for a drink when she goes out
she invites me to go camping with her ane her friends and my kids every weekend
im confused because i cant get her out of my mind
Since my divorce my longest relationship was about 2 months
neither one of us has the time to have a relationship
we share custody we live about a mile from each other
and im getting strong sexual feelings towards her
i dont think i ever stop loving her and im actually very proud of what she has accoplished since our divorced
i need help
what do i do or say
thanks in advance

[vashti]

Does she show any indication that she wants you back? Do you have children together?

[kanefan69]

Yes we have 3 children together
and im confused as if she wants me back or not

[vashti]

Is it possible she is inviting you on these trips, then, because she wants you to stay connected to the kids?

[squirrley]

It may be her motherly instinct to WANT a close bond for her children with their father. Its a great situation youre in, you have a strong relationship with your x and most people dont have it. If you dont want to mix her invites with something else, then maybe you should talk to her. Let her know youre still in love with her, if indeed you are and its not mixed emotion and the feeling of just your comfort level with her when you were married.

Maybe ask her out on a date? Try that first.

[kanefan69]

Im already connected with my kids they live with me 3 days a week i take them to school i pick them up they say with me a lot we really dont have any time alone

[vashti]

I agree with squirrley. You were once married to this woman.. This means you should be able to communicate. Tell her you are still interested in making it work. I don't know what led to your divorce, but unless it was really terrible, or unless I didn't see that things have changed, I would be inclined to give the father of my children extra consideration.

[Gigabitch]

I notice you don't mention what the cause of the divorce was. That's pretty important. Details?