GEMINIs

[ILUVD]

How do you deal with an extremely unemotional Gemini male. He seems to be a great guy but he just doesn't give me the emotion or attention that I need. You know, the mushy stuff we girls like. He gave me a car so I know he cares about me but sometimes I feel like he just wants to be my friend and nothing more.

[Kromat]

How do you deal with an extremely unemotional Gemini male.
He seems to be a great guy but he just doesn't give me the emotion or attention
that I need. You know, the mushy stuff we girls like. He gave me a car so I know
he cares about me but sometimes I feel like he just wants to be my friend and
nothing more.

Why would he give you a car, if he didn't care about you?
Is he trying to buy your attention?
Maybe he just wants a woman in his life, but doesn't want
to bring some fun and effort into the relationship.
Have you told him to express himself more and go out with you to have some fun?

P.S. I wish I could tell suggest more, but I haven't been in a situation
like you have myself, so I can only provide with what I feel about it.
Talk to him about it, and see where how he wants this relationship to develop.

[vashti]

Give him back the car and find yourself a boyfriend you like "as is".

[Illusional]

do you really believe that an astrological sign determines a person's personality??

raverboy

[bohemiandonut]

I'm not answering until I can see an enlarged version of your avatar picture.

[ILUVD]

Yes, Illusional, I do believe that astrological signs affect a person's personality to some degree.
Bohemiandonut, why do u need to see an enlarged pic of the avatar? I guess u just wanna see the car, huh?
Thanks, Kromat.
I must admit I was not completely forthcoming with the situation. There are more details that I left out that would probably give you all a bit of a different perspective. I just didn't have time to put it all in my post.

[Gigabitch]

I've tried to date Gemini men and it's always ended in disaster. Always. They're fickle as hell and have a terrible case of "subjective reality".

You can't fix him. Find someone else or come to terms with the fact that your emotional needs are never going to be met.

[ILUVD]

Thanks Gigabitch! It's nice to know that someone else out there shares my same feelings about Gemini men.
I think I will try to stick it out a little while longer because he truly is a great guy.

[bohemiandonut]

Waiting...

[DharmicLove]

Okay, so I see it appropriate to answer this question only because I, myself happens to be a gemini male. A gay one, but nonetheless I am a gemini. The bottom line to this is that geminis are more logical than emotional.

And you think he is unemotional now, honey, just wait until he activates those famous gemini mood swings, and that acid tongue he has.

So, please, enlighten me on what exactly you mean by "unemotional" and what exactly is the attention you need??

[Gigabitch]

Hey, Dharmic- I'm a Gemini too. When's your birthday?

[IndiReloaded]

You can't fix him. Find someone else or come to terms with the fact that your emotional needs are never going to be met.

I agree w/this^. The fact that he's a gemini, or republican or a chinese food short-order cook w/bad teeth is irrelevant.

[littlewing]

Never met a Tautus like myself, and I know a bunch

[Illusional]

haha..that's like saying that everyone who was born in the year of the new millennium is cursed.... sorry, but i don't believe in stuff like astrological signs.

raverboy

[Kromat]

My avatar is my horoscope, and i'm proud to be one.
I even portray a bunch of those traits, but not all, because everyone chooses how they want to be towards others.
I want to try real estate, and it was before I looked up the generic info about about my zodiac.
I care for others, am really honest, independent and want to take control of my own life, that's why i'm choosing this career path.

P.S. Look at how the person makes you feel when they are around you, and If there is something missing or no sparks happen, the n you must move on, before you regret staying with someone who doesn'tt care about you emotionally.