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    She is too shy about verbalizing sexual needs and desires?

    I am in a very committed and loving relationship with my Russian Fiancée for over one year. We met online, had intense discussions via phone and comp for 5 months before meeting in person. When we first met, she was curious about sexual desires and we cybered a few times. She was always very positive and told me that we were very compatible sexually. In person when we met, she waited the first evening after a romantic meeting and dinner. Our chemistry was incredible, and the second day I couldn’t keep her off me. I was always a gentleman and was considerate in making sure she was ok with any progression of lovemaking. Since our meeting, she makes positive innuendos as to our sexuality together, but if I start to become aroused in our conversation, she drops the subject as if she is shy or does not want it to go further. I know she desires to be with me and I am certain she is faithful. My question and bewilderment is; given our level of intimacy and trust together, and the fact we had a mutually compatible sexual experience, why would she seemingly have no interest in expressing her sexual feelings or wanting to culminate them with me via phone comp, especially since I know she enjoyed it at the beginning of our relationship? I am very puzzled. Any ideas from a Russian woman’s perspective? By the way, she is 23 and very intelligent and sophisticated.

    Thanks for any ideas you may have.

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    I'm not even sure I understand what the issue here is..

    Is she not having sex with you?
    Is she teasing you and you fail to pick up and lead with the tension?
    Does she not want to talk or think about sex anymore?

    And give that.., is she uncomfortable with sex?

    Give us more info to work with.., on what exactly is going on (or not going on)..

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    maybe she's waiting until you finally get married before she blows your load.

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