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    boy of 16 desperate in love!!

    hello,

    I'm new on this forum and my english is terrible.
    But I'd like to have advice for something I thought the
    whole week on. I go work by some friends who have a
    daughter of 11 years old. The last time I was been there
    (One week ago) the mother asked my what I found of her
    daugther, and I say that she was the most amazing girl.
    And afcourse she agreed with me.(She already said that her
    daughter was fell in love for me.) She even says that when
    I wait untill she's old enough I'm aloud to go out with her.
    Because they know that I'm a honest and confidential men.
    I don't find it a problem to wait, because someone like her
    I will never find.
    - What's your opinion about my problem??
    - What do you think about the age difference?

    Thank you, and I hope for a fast response.

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    As the mother of a ten-year-old, I find your post distressing on many levels.

    Maybe things are different where you are. They must be, if this mom is already trying to fix her 11-year-old up with you. Here, that would be considered an actionable offense and the mother would be censured by her peers and by society at large while you would be looked at as a perv for even thinking about a child that way.

    Yes, you're still a child at 11.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Performance View Post

    Daughter of 11 years old. The last time I was there
    (One week ago),and the mother asked my what I thought of her
    daugther, and I said, "she is the amazing.
    The mom agreed with me, and told me she was fell in love. Date her when she's old enough.
    - What's your opinion about my problem??
    - What do you think about the age difference?
    Wow! I was hoping for a Girl that went to your school or at least someone within 2 years of you.
    I'm sorry, but it's impossible to fall in love with someone, If then haven't gone through some similar situations.
    Out of all the eye candy in your school, no one was at least somewhat attractive to you?
    You sound like a kid still from what you are thinking inside.
    I've liked older women that were about up to 4 years, But nothing as young as you are suggesting.
    Go for girls that are your age and then go up & down 2 years max, then decide.
    There are lots of opportunities to experience, if you go to certain situations.
    Maybe hang out with some buddies of yours, that could introduce to you to some girls, and stop thinking about the kiddies.
    What would your friends & family think about this?
    P.S. Don't tell me because your in love, this isn't going to Work, whatever you do.'
    If you don't like the girls in your school, and if you can't find one elsewhere, then just wait till university.
    If you still can't find one around your age, then your not ready.
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    Sorry, no. That's not going to work.
    "You know you're in love when you can't fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.” -Dr. Seuss

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    sorry but you're too young yet to really know or even be sure of what you really want or what's ahead for you.

    let's say you're sure you could wait for her until she's in the right age, what's your guarantee that the girl won't change after the years?

    at your age, i am pretty sure it's just infatuation or "puppy love" that you both feel for each other.

    so better not just focus your self on her. look around you. enjoy your youth.

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    There is something wrong with that poor girl's mother.

    Here is the dating rule for age differences, which is pretty good at all stages of life: half your age plus 7 years.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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