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    A question of cum

    Hey all, I'm a long time lurker and a first time poster, and I was hoping for a little help.

    Me and my boyfriend have been together for four months, we're both clean and healthy and enjoy a rather spectacular sex life. We want to try sex without condoms, so I'm going on birth control, but my question is, once he's cum inside, how hard is it to get out again? Because we have sex pretty frequently (like 2-3 times each time we see each other, in general), and the last thing I want is to still have crusty semen inside me when we want to go at it again! That seems like a real moodkiller to me! But I also don't want to have to run off to the shower five minutes after we're done every time. I was hoping some people could help me out with their experiences and suggestions

    Also, what've been your guys' experience with birth control? I've found it pretty hard to get an unbiased opinion except from my friends, and they're not exactly a large proportion of people on the pill! I've heard some really nasty side effects, and although I'm cautious about it I really want to try it.

    Any help is very gratefully received!
    "You will always be loved, and you will always be in love with love... Don't be afraid. There are exquisite things in store for you. This is merely the beginning." - The Picture of Dorian Gray - Oscar Wilde.

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    You'll be fine, just do it. Don't worry about the cum.

    I would like to let you know that even if you are on the pill, although small, there is a chance that you can still get pregnant. So do consider still using a condom, or at least have him pull out before cumming.

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    You are going to want to shower every time he does it. Otherwise, it continually oozes out of you for a while, and it's nasty and gross.

    and pinkukiller? Many girls who use the pull out method have a special name they are called by:


    mommy.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    No comments... I'd just suggest you stop thinking on semen as a sort of radioactive substance.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tedel View Post
    No comments... I'd just suggest you stop thinking on semen as a sort of radioactive substance.
    Aww, come on now, darling! If it were oozing out of your penis for an hour or longer after you had sex, you wouldn't like it either.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    All i have to say is, other governments and countries have report higher failure rate with the pills that we have here. I had allergic reaction to the pill and the shot. So i investigated in to other forms i found something called implanon. I across the world is one of the best rated birth controls. And i love it. Even though its an implant

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    Quote Originally Posted by vashti View Post
    Aww, come on now, darling! If it were oozing out of your penis for an hour or longer after you had sex, you wouldn't like it either.
    More than an hour? Wow... OK, today I learnt something.

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    Maybe you can limit the oozing by injecting some botox into your snatch so as to tighten the muscles and stop it from spilling out. Or let some guy with an even more massive wang plow you until everything in there falls out

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tedel View Post
    More than an hour? Wow... OK, today I learnt something.

    Depends on how much he shoots and how long he is. The further in you get it, the longer it takes to make it's way out.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    You need to make sure that you're READY to have a child whether you're on the pill or not. There's always a chance.

    My girlfriend switched to a new pill so there won't be any cumming inside her for a few months. However, when we did, she had to pee right after.

    And if you just have him pull out without being on the pill, you're still probably looking at a good chance of being pregnant. Keep in mind that most of the cum spills out after he ejaculates and it only takes one little sperm to get you going. Pre-cum happens very often while the guy is feeling pleasure and he won't know when he's pre-cumming.

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    Thanks for the help, guys I went and talked to a doctor today who talked me through the different methods and I got some alesse, so we'll see how that goes!

    And Tedel, please don't get me wrong, I looooove the cum, just as vashti says, I don't want it oozing out of me for ages afterwards.
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    Only time I ever had sex with a girl who was on birth control without a condom I pulled out. But I don't think him cumming inside you will be a problem. Remember though nothing is 100% effective and pills don't protect against some stds like condoms do.

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